Hey! Male 36hear
Hello there, do you need help?
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I need help
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Iām so hurt and sad today.
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Yeah, I do need help
The situation I'm in is too hard to handle. -
I'm in a lonely situation at the moment, if anyone else is in the same boat I'm happy to chat
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@DawnWillow hi dawn, I've literally just joined this site,I'm here to listen if you want to talk
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I've been feeling really depressed lately and stop doing things I need to. I haven't showered in a while, didn't eat for the past week or so, and just stopped doing my schoolwork. I haven't slept in almost a month. I just need someone to talk to.
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Hello,
My partner and I (M/M) have been together for just about 2 years now. Weāre both in our mid 20s, come from culturally Jewish backgrounds, and share many values. We met while both living in LA and were fortunate enough to both move to NYC for grad schools. We donāt currently live together as our schools are in different boroughs, but see each other most weekends as a compromise. Recently, my partner has been trying to make more friends as our social network seems to more heavily skew toward people that come from my experiences (school, past work, etc). He definitely wants more āguy friendsā but also just more friends he feels he can bring to āourā circle. I have the benefit of living on a grad school campus with in person classes and a large cohort (which means all my peers live in the same place, take the same classes in person) while my partnerās school is much less centralized and students are spread around manhattan and take classes in a variable order (mixed cohorts). Iām trying to understand how I can support him making friends organically while also not feel like Iām ignoring him or āmissing outā on time with him. We have open communication and Iāve directly asked about how I can help him, or if I should give him more space (ie not come some weekends to give him more āfree timeā to make plans with other people) but he gets upset at the idea that I wouldnāt be around as much when I could be seeing as our time is already limited. Iām not sure how to support his social growth - Iāve tried suggesting he join student groups, try to take in person classes rather than hybrid/online, join local events and groups, etc. but he seems resistant to my ideas. What should I do? Please and thanks for your thoughts -
@raine505 HII I CAN BE YOUR FRIEND
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@mattblack I..thank you
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@IAM_INNOCENT thanks I would really like that
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@DawnWillow go on tell me
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@IamIsha wat?
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Yes. Please! I do need help. Health issues have been unbearable lately. Need to chat with someone.
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48 years old and my 47 year old wife is in pretty severe decline. We have 3 kids.
Just looking for some support. And you all on this site seem to be awesome when it comes to helping out. -
@lucia-cares
Hello , iāve been having a rough week .. I really feel like iām at a point in life where Iām asking / begging for God to take me out . -
Yes , i kinda feel tht whoever i talk to like whoever it be apart from my parents i feel they be nice to me just because they r sympathetic towards me like i have had a couple of bad experiences further and whenever I be vulnerable abt it to a friend i feel tht they r being nice to me just because they sympathize to me and there is not depth to it and they don't see me as a real genuine friend . Which I know is my imagination they've never by there behaviour made me feel tht way . But my experiences made me this way. I really want to let go of this feeling.wht do i do ?
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@raine505 hey dude. That's exactly what's happening to me right now. Lost all the motivation to do anything
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@Jan8269 I recently became Muslim and it helped me so much with my motivation because I was motivated to pray everyday.
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@lucia-cares I just needed someone to talk because life has been so tough to me lately. I use to ask myself why I am always not enough? I always question my self worth.
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"Verily the help of God is always near"
