@Belle18 said in My boyfriend ignores me…:
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You should ignore that bastard and find new this world is full of guys and for girls it's so easy to get one good luck
Insecurities with an Ex
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@UnderThePine It seems for me the case needs more details about your wife and her ex so that I can help out with a good advice. Excuse me but I don't know anything about her, her past, him , his past, character , personality, ... On the other hand you too is anonymous to me , so I trying to Imagine three characters that might be way more different than you 3 In this story, but lets take everything you said as 100% true, happening, accurate etc... Your main doubt here is that she's betraying you? Or trying to fool you? She missed her ex? She don't like you or love you anymore? I have so many questions to get answers for so that I can give good advices or suggestions.Final thing you should put into consideration,my Judgement and evaluation to people might not aline with yours .
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Absolutely I agree that there are many moving pieces to this story. To be honest, the whole reason I downloaded this app is so I can just tell someone what's going on and put my feelings in writing. My concern is my wife going to make a fool of me and eventually leave me for her ex. She has admitted that she would have gotten back together with him for the kids sake, but note, it's not because she said she loved him. When I came into the picture they were separated already but I was the reason my wife wen through with the divorce. She would have gone back just to see her kids everyday. I wish I could attach images here but I can't figure it out. I have screen shots of him texting me directly in the past and they are very enlightening to show his character.
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This is the kind of man I am dealing with. I had bought his daughter a cell phone so she could talk with her mom because he wouldnt allow them to speak and he found it. He saw that I was texting his daughter to help parent her and tell her to hang in there. This is the stuff he'd text me on it. This was a long time ago but I am just to be okay with my wife now texting him? I don't think so. That picture of my wife was one time she was staying at a hotel down here to pick up her kids and he took that picture through the window as she was getting ready to get her kids.
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I am white and he is Navajo as is my wife and step kids.
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@UnderThePine go report to the police , this is threatening obviously.
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@UnderThePine look the best thing I can and should suggest is to report this Incident and explain this situation to a lawyer that can sue the guy and bring the divorce case file with you ... But all of this is not Important If your wife don't want you anymore ... Try to make a tricky trap , tell your wife : If you continue texting this guy without my permission and attendance, I would work on this situation on my own.. She would say wdym? Tell her I will go report ur ex for threatening me. See If she defends him then It's all up on you to analyze her reaction and get a conclusion to her feelings to you ...
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@UnderThePine Tell your ladieS? Does he mean ur wife?
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@UnderThePine Another thing this picture alone can put him jail, It's kinda stalking, plus there Is racial descrimination go accuse him.
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@UnderThePine BTW why did you wait all this time? This text almost 4years old !! There is too much of mystery here. TM out. :/
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I did report it. We live on a reservation and the police do not do anything back then. He was talking about my wife but I k ow he was just trying to hurt me and cause issues in our marriage back then. That was when the divorce was going through and he realized she was no longer his to control. I. Just fearful it will start happening again and I live my wife to death which is why I am even still around. I was just showing his character and how am I supposed to be okay with her texting someone who has said those types of things to me? When she first met with him and I was unaware I told her the meetings that I am not aware of had to stop immediately or I'd be gone. Since then she has told me every time they go and talk about her kids. I originally was ok with them texting and said if it helps see her kids more often then ok. However, since then I have become insecure since she texts with him literally every day. We talked about it a few nights ago that I wasn't okay with it but it hasn't stopped. She told me that she indicated to him to back off but it hasn't slowed I don't think. I don't want to start pulling cell phone records, but I am not blind. I see the texts pop up on her phone while we we go throughout our day. I told her I wasn't ok with them being friends. She looked at me funny and said "I am not friends with him. He is the man holding my kids hostage against me." I really don't know what to do. I mean, I deserve my wife to respect and honor my wishes and it doesn't feel like that's happening. It just feels like how can she be sneakier so she isn't caught. I am about to bounce on this marriage if things don't change. I started this board so I can just air out all my shit in front of strangers to hopefully get some clarity on what to do. I'd love marriage counseling but the nearest Walmart is over 150+ miles away let alone a counselor.
