I'd like to tell anyone who is struggling to find a reason to carry on; Think of a memory. Think of a time in your life when you were truly happy, no matter how how big or small that moment was, dwell on it. Now think of a time in your life when things were worse than they are for you now, a time when you thought there was nary a chance to come through it in one piece. let it pass through your mind for a moment. Think back to people you have loved, who have loved you in return, regardless of where they are now, take a moment to analyze your triumphs and your failures. understand that no matter what happens in life, you have to keep the goodness from your past held strong in your heart, and carry that joy with you in the darkest of shadows, You need to look back on the events in your life that just about broke you in two, and draw strength from that. You are still here, You're still fighting, even if you don't want to, even if you feel like you cant. embrace that fighting spirit. and turn your pain into motivation, channel all that emotion into a fuel for your will. and keep in mind. there have been times in your life where you knew joy, and those days will return, especially if you FIGHT for them. life doesn't get easier. I wish I could say that it does, but that would be a lie. The difference lies with you. You get better at handling the hardship, and eventually, events that almost broke you will seem like no big deal, so long as you keep striving to do better. the last thing i'd like to say; You can only rely on yourself at the end of the day. Learn to love yourself, accept your flaws, and change the things that are in your power to change. You have to accept yourself for who you are, because you cant break up with, nor cut ties with yourself. you have to accept every mistake and shortcoming and love yourself unconditionally. on top of that, you most likely have people that love you, that need you in this world, and would never be the same without you. You can make it through this, even if you are at your lowest, for if that's the case, the only way to go is up.
Hi I wanted to say I'm really sorry for those who I missed treated...
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@lilyrose, @HanzoHarashi, @Dreamworld, and other users on here.... I know I can act cold towards people especially guys Idk if its because of my dad and I don't want to say why because I don't want to make people think I want tons of attention , but that is no reason for me to act cold... but all I wanted to say for those who I acted meanly towards or like short I'm very sorry I have been bothered by so many people on here that won't leave me alone and I guess I get annoyed and bring it out on other people, I feel so bad honestly and guilty and I'm sorry. Thank you and nice days
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@Kina_Joy poppet you really don't need to explain yourself, you're a brilliant lass and any man worthy of you sees past your wee tantrums and hissy fits to the real Kahina, don't worry, you're cool as fuck, all strength to you honey xxx
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@Kina_Joy It's alright, Kina. Thanks for explaining. If you ever need someone to just talk to, I'm here. As a friend. Ready to walk in when the rest of the world walks out. :wave::grinning_face:
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@Scottish thank you your the greatest
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@Lazz thanks you lazz
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@Kina_Joy Tomodachi no tame ni nandemo
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@Lazz you're the best! Be my dad 😂
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@Scottish OK. But I'm not reading you bedtime stories, or changing nappies LOL :grinning_face:
You're the best of the best, mate!
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@Lazz but we can buy each other drinks in bars and go to shows together right? 😁 no diaper changing required, I'm not that niche 😂😂😂
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@Scottish Sure. And if you're extra good, I'll take you out for an ice cream! :smiling_face:
I think it's official, mate. We're both nuts.
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@Kina_Joy yea if I had a soul, I'd be upset! Butttttt I don't so lol
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@Canadian-guy lol yeah I know I wasn't nice to you and sorry
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@Kina_Joy not your fault your dad was not the best but you can be better then he showed you ☺️
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@Canadian-guy haha thanks I'll try yeah he wasn't the best you know trying to make him proud which never worked for him but that was in the past Idk I tend to hold on things
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@Kina_Joy nah make yourself proud don't be trying to make someone else happy. Your happiness is more important then someone else's. Although it can be used to drive you
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@Canadian-guy you think so?? But I don't want to be selfish 😥
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@Kina_Joy it's ok to be selfish when it doesn't hurt others. Empowering yourself is never a bad thing
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@Canadian-guy oh ok thank you
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@Kina_Joy i can only say that u are forgiven
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@DennisJM Dennis Thank you and I'm so sorry... your the greatest friend I could ever have I'll always remember you and if no one likes you fuck them I like you as a friend