• @Lemohang Hi dear.. Thank you for your interest. Not many people ask me here, I'm glad you did. By the way my name is Ariyah, nice meeting you here.

    Negative thoughts or any emotions that comes, it appears and vanish. We tend to change our moods all the time, so don't worry about it. Nothing in permanent, everything is temporary. We cannot stop them from coming in, what we can do is to abserve it.

    Our mind must be train to observe emotions, thoughts thats running through enable us to master it. We train the mind to realize the reality of truth. To identify the causes of attachments that's hurting as the pain and suffering or negative thoughts appears.

    We observe them till we know it well, when they begin to starts, so it's not going to act out, it will reminds in the mind and end it there.

    For example if you gets angry a lot you'll realize how bad it is and the effect and guilt that's has left behind is not really worth holding on.

    Once your mind recognize these emotions that's coming through you'll notice that is a natural and temporary things that the mind knows and it's easier to let go now.

    We train this to realize that the reality is true and the illusion of its just pain but yet very important to over come.

    In order to become free from emotional pain and struggles, you must first let them surface. When they come out onto the surface... then it is easier to clean.

    I hope you would understand and answered your question.

    Please feel free to talk anytime.

    Ariyah..٩(●˙—˙●)۶


  • @Kra Friendly decent chat are welcome.


  • @ANYA_TH Thanks a ton Ariyah.
    Thing is... There's something I'm going through at the moment. And I feel like I have no freedom at all with this one, it's holding me down on a few aspects of my life and I feel like I have no control over it... No matter how hard I try, it always gets the better of me, and after that, I'm left to deal with the guilt/shame.


  • @Lemohang ♪ ♬ ヾ(´︶`♡)ノ ♬ ♪
    When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas
    we conquered long ago. Just let it go..

    We'll talk more about that later..


  • @ANYA_TH
    Alright.


  • Hy=@@@@@


  • Hello I am here to talk with u


  • (づ ◕‿◕ )づ

    @Lemohang When you're lost in those woods, it sometimes takes you a while to realize that you are lost. For the longest time, you can convince yourself that you've just wandered off the path, that you'll find your way back to the trailhead any moment now.

    Then night falls again and again, and you still have no idea where you are, and it's time to admit that you have bewildered yourself so far off the path that you don't even know from which direction the sun rises anymore.

    Letting go means to come to the realization that some people are a part of your history, but not a part of your destiny. The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward.

    Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up. When another blames you or hates you, or people voice similar criticisms, go to their souls, penetrate inside and see what sort of people they are. You will realize that there is no need to be racked with anxiety that they should hold any particular opinion about you.

    When you have an emotional reaction to what you see, you are judging. That is your signal that you have an issue inside of yourself with yourself not with the other person. If you react to evil, look inside yourself for the very thing that so agitates you, and you will find it. If it were not there, you will simply discern, act appropriately, and move on.

    Have a wonderful day... (=⌒‿‿⌒=)


  • @ANYA_TH Hey. I understand that you have a personal life outside of the internet, so thank you for taking your time to tend to my issues and giving out your best possible answers to my question.... a ''stranger''.
    You have a wonderful day ahead of you as well. Once again, thank you for your time ma'am.


  • @Lemohang My pleasure...
    ♡⃛◟( ˊ̱˂˃ˋ̱ )◞⸜₍ ˍ́˱˲ˍ̀ ₎⸝◟( ˊ̱˂˃ˋ̱ )◞♡⃛


  • @ANYA_TH by the way it took me 15 minutes to read all your replies 😂😂😂😂...
    That's nice and sorry I don't have anything to say about this topic but yeah I'll only say that have freedom but not at the cost of other's freedom...


  • @Mickeyyyyy 👍👍😊😊😊
    Set it free... \(○^ω^○)/


  • Hi hlo how are you


  • How to contact you madam


  • @Kra You can PM me click my profile...


  • @Kra I'm doing well thank you, busy with all the work from home. Hope you're alright too..


  • Ok thank you so much madaam


  • @ANYA_TH Ma' am .. i need your help.. i have read your other messages.. and those are inspiring.. i hope you will help me.. i promise i will not take much time of yours.. with respect.. 😊


  • @zoryan Yes, Tell me?


  • @ANYA_TH actually i got a very unbelievable story.. i don't know you will believe me or not.. but i really wants too get over of all this.. my mind has just stopped working.. i will tell you in short.. my dad died when i was 2..years old.. then i loved a girl.. when i was 16 years ..old. but she left me because her childhood friends..because.. i'm of that aggresive fightimg kid type.. but by heart i never break someone trust.. then after her.. i don't stop loving her.. but stop showing it.. thenafter.. i get into some illegal works.. drugs.. trafficking.. i know this was the biggest mistake of my life.. my mom had tried her best.. to take me to the right path.. but i never.. listened her.. then in 2018 decwmber 9:34 pm.. my mom died because of brain hamrage.. then at that time.. i changed.. i left all bad work behind.. then i became.. something else. i used to be very talkative.. i became silent.. then one day i was.. sitting alone.. with a fake insta id stalking the girl i loved when i was 16.. she was live.. and on that live.. some random boy commented shit her.. i was drunk.. and as being aggressive.. i comment back to that boy.. and on that day.. i got a msg from her.. we started chatting.. and at that time she don't know that was me.. she was depressed.. i made her laugh.. i helped her.. to get out of her depression.. and then she falls in love with me.. without even seeing me.. just because of my voice.. and talk.. on day she cried and insisted me. to tell her.. who i am ? , as i tell her. .. that it is me.. she got angry.. i tried hard.. to tell her.. that at that time i was not wrong.. but she doesn't understand.. she left.. and after all this mess.. my head and heart jut feel like.. they stopped working.. i'm not understanding that what is happening to me.. now i'm 22.. and my name is arhaan.. i have tried my best to forgot my past.. but it isn't easy.. i wants to die.. but i can't.. because i got a dream.. i doesn't want to die like a stranger to the world.. i wants to die.. after doing aomething big.. but i can't focus.. b'coz of a this.. i don't know wether you will believe me or not.. but i swear.. this is true.. and i'm nkt understanding.. why all this ahave happened to me..