Hi all
I am having bad today. I received abusing messages from my landlord. He is alcoholic and smoking cannabis. i am clean person and I am trying to be nice to him. I am cleaning my room weekly I am cleaning bathroom (only I), I am cleaning floor in hole house. He never sees all these staff just complaining if I do something wrong.
I also had supervision with my team leader yesterday. She told me that some my patient complained about me. I have breached confidentiality. It was verbal message to patient mobile phone. I cannot prove otherwise. This is my contract job and expire in September. i am looking for new job. i had some very good job interviews. However, my Team leader is my referee.
how to ......? 😥
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@Eliza8113 — give fake info of course
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@DIV your way is right too, make them feel ashamed for even trying when they can't deal
@nightshifter you're right too, give fake info but only on appearance -
@ash33 change name don't be catfish after doing this I hope u will not get any pm again 😁😁😁
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@ash33 If they're doing anything you don't like, block 'em. From the first message. Don't indulge or try to rationalise with them, it's like fuel for them.
If they're just boring but not harmful or harassing, ignore them. Don't even give them a word back, for the same reasons.
I know full well I've engaged with some dodgy types online, not here necessarily but definitely elsewhere. Profiles who are clearly guys pretending to be girls. Many times I've indulged them, kept the banter going (sometimes for weeks), let them think I don't know they're fake. I find it kind-of entertaining watching to see what nonsense they'll come out with, it's like a study in human behaviour. There is also an attitude amongst some I've spoken with that by engaging with these types, so long as you remain safe yourself, a positive aspect is that you are tying up their time keeping them from engaging with somebody more vulnerable.
Frankly I think these folks need to grow up. Oh though I should add I'm no prude and have been known to engage in "sordid" online activities myself on many an occasion, but respect is crucial. Keep it to where it is welcome/has been invited.
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@ash33 Tell em send hundred dollars for the noodz
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@DIV , I’ve done that! Lmao! Was awesome!!!!
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@VioletApple lol nice idea for earning some free money 😂
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@ash33 ikr! wait I know the best and easiest way to earn money that quick guess what? 😁
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@VioletApple what?🤔🤔
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I think it's better to ignore them.