@Undercraft Lol Live Your Life
What do you think are the 3 (at least) signs that you're over someone who hurt you ?
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hmm I wanna know :)
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@cjko hmmm. I started a new life from a blank. No big deal.. I left everything behind. Our home, my job, as i moved from other side of the capital to another side i even changed my car to one she never wanted. Drowned myself in liquer for a week and cried like a baby. Like i said no big deal XD
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@cjko said in What do you think are the 3 (at least) signs that you're over someone who hurt you ?:
hmm I wanna know :)
1.When you realise you not checking you messages every 2 mins to see if they called or texted.
2.When you stop wandering what they are up to
3.When your friends start to take more interest in the things you say because it's not oriented around the life/love you lost.
4.When you can go to places that were popular while in your relationship.
5.When You Start To Notice People Again
6.When you start to live again
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@cjko I think every our action and connection to someone after a certain amount of time becomes a habit. Like texting, seeing someone, feeling for someone and similar. After some time those actions become habits which are quite hard to change if we don't implement something new and start doing something with ourselves. So I notice that whenever I wanna turn a new page I focus more on doing other things which will slowly become a habit of bigger value and replace the habits I had developed with someone.
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@cjko you are never over... you just try and ignore... thats all...
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@mr_peanut hahah this is the greatest reply so far from an experienced wise man. Thank you for sharing your thought :)
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@its-bobby hahahhahha really? you avoid talking to them ? Angry ? hmmmm I think forgiveness and acceptance is the key to move on :)
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@valve hahha ok. Well, congratulations ! :) You made it without hatred. :)
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@what-is-this Hmm yeah true indeed. Like you focus on investing to yourself then later on someone :)
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@barton what? hahhahah sounds bitter to me :) Why did you say so ? :)
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@cjko well from what i went through...
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@cjko i did say "don't contact me ever again" she has not. So i kinda respect that but also because of that it was easier to move on.
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@barton well, ok.. if that helped you. :)
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@valve yeah it is.. well, that's part of our lives. :)
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@cjko honestly i dont really get what the question is lol. if that means what do i do to someone who hurt me.
yeah i think i do avoid them not talk with them (maybe for sometimes until i dont feel hurt anymore)yeah i do forgive them, but for me i need a time to just not be with them
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@cjko never did
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@barton why not?
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@its-bobby yeah.. that's true time heals all wounds. :)
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@cjko coz i wasnt able to let go