Hi all
I am having bad today. I received abusing messages from my landlord. He is alcoholic and smoking cannabis. i am clean person and I am trying to be nice to him. I am cleaning my room weekly I am cleaning bathroom (only I), I am cleaning floor in hole house. He never sees all these staff just complaining if I do something wrong.
I also had supervision with my team leader yesterday. She told me that some my patient complained about me. I have breached confidentiality. It was verbal message to patient mobile phone. I cannot prove otherwise. This is my contract job and expire in September. i am looking for new job. i had some very good job interviews. However, my Team leader is my referee.
What pops In your mind when you see a gloomy sky?
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@bela hahhaha yeah rather than kung anu-ano na. heheh
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@kiss-my-axe said in What pops In your mind when you see a gloomy sky?:
A gloomy sky reminds me of my first girlfriend, who cheated on me and fucked my best friend. Therefore, it is more painful, when the person u trust the most betrays/ hurts you.
I respectfully disagree. When you hurt yourself by hurting another and they have enough love for you to forgive you is a longer lasting deeper pain.
I have lost both best friend and spouse by betrayal and I definitely admit that is intensely painful. But right now sitting here thinking about that as well as the time I was the one causing the pain I have to say that I can still feel the hurt and confusion of my actions while any pain I felt from the betrayal is long gone -
@wet-teri may you have it all. Free yourself from hurtful memories :)
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@cjko
I thank you for the thought. Although I don't dwell on it or anything to the point of it being a problem. I do feel though it is things along these lines that help shape and make you who you are.
After all it's not the good or bad things that happen to you that define who you are but how you deal with those things. -
@wet-teri I agree with this one.
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@kiss-my-axe
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@wet-teri indeed. That made sense :)
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@bela said in What pops In your mind when you see a gloomy sky?:
- Obviously when its gloomy,it will produce rainshowers..
- Gloomy sky reminds me of a friend, he loves the devilish grin of the sky.
- I also used to think of this question..What is more painful??
A.When a person whom you trusted,hurts you?
Or
B. The person whom you hurt still trust you?
What do you think guys??
It's easy to forgive (hard to forget) others when they hurt me or at least easier then when it's me who fucked up. It's really hard for me to find solace after I fuck things up with anyone, so I will say it's harder the 2nd option, at least in my case I simply can't find a good way to get over it...
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@mr-h people never forgive. they just forget.
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I find it easier to forgive then to forget, but hey, that's just me.
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@mr-h Thanks for the thoughts..adja hugo
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@mr-h Same here Mr-H. The "bitterness" from such betrayal is deeply imprinted on my genes and this will be passed on for generations. They should burn in hell and suffer from eternal damnation.
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@barton At the long run people forget and forgive balu at the same time . Just my opinion..
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You can hate someone as much as you can and the only one that is hurting is you.
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@wet-teri true.. that's why forgive and forget people who caused you pain. :)
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@bela people say time heals things. if you can forgive people why take time? The time is there to forget and there my forgive.
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@bela When I see sky's like that I think of Thunder ( not necessarily that it will thunder ) Thunder is a force of great power and confrontation.
Thunder as we know cleanses the air for brighter, and clearer times...So when I see the sky like that I see bright days ahead...
I'ts almost like when people have that type of look in their eye. It requires some form of clearance in order to sort things out, to move forward :) -
@barton yes it takes time to heal things..generally betrayal depends between people and the situation,if the pain is too deep it takes time to heal..we cant forget or forgive that asap especially its the trust that were talking here
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@mr_peanut I appreciated your response..have a great day..