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Do you think LOVE is more of the FATE or EFFORT?
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@evan-elderson i wouldn't die for anyone
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@ragnar
it's fate to meet the person you love and you'll need to exert effort for them to stay -
@ragnar Both.
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I don't believe in fate, or at least not in just one. You get to know people by chance, just for being at the right place at the right moment,you aren't destined to them. Effort instead, is required for a relationship to continue in time.
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@ragnar I think its fate, you run into the same person that you have feelings for over and over again, then they might have some feelings toward you, in fact, all of my love has just been fate, the only effort was to keep going
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@majesticowl you wouldnt die for anyone?
thats kinda a strange thing to awnser -
its about 50/50
the person u run game on is fate
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@neonblazer He asked, I answered, don't see what the strange part is?
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but you said I wouldnt die for anyone, does that mean you dont believe life is a substitute for love
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@neonblazer I love myself, if that counts
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@majesticowl I think thats a good awnser
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but its mostly effort
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A combination of alot of factors. I like to think about how "FATE" can lead to everything but that is a total complete bs. If you just sit at home or avoid ppl all together, your fate is pretty much set in stone.
You need effort, fate and luck, alot of luck to find that special someone that is in the same boat as you. -
@ragnar 50:50 but if they meant to be together then they will be, even without much effort. Conversely, if they are not made for each other they couldn't make it even with a lot of effort, thats called fate.
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I believe that love is Fate more than effort :)
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@ragnar Great question. From my experience, always feels like fate at first but definitely evolves into effort as time goes on
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i bet if you ask those who think it's more fate than effort what there longest relationship they have had is, not a single one will have been in a serious relationship for more than 5 years.. it always feels like fate at first, especially with all the movies out there.. after several years, people change and the true test sets in. of course this will not be the case 100% of the time, but much closer to it than not.
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@chicken-nugget sounds to me like you don't believe you have the ability to control your own fate. so yes, that will make you at the mercy of it. realizing you can actually control your own fate by the decisions you make, now that takes effort and intention which is not for the faint of heart
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@smhsk81 You are wise!
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@ragnar
I have no experience in love, ever. But while seeing my parents I think both the factors are included. Fate lead them to meet one another but the effort they exerted was the reason that made their relationship stronger and last for 14 years. 💕💓