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@Rei_90 totally captures my mood right now 👌

@Rei_90 for me saturday is a relay race of seeing various family in various places, trying to squeeze as much into the day as possible. Sunday I'm working 11am til 9pm. And hopefully I'll find some time to talk to someone nice that i like 😊

@Sassygirl and talk to me! 😊🤗

@Eucalyptus I'd hang out with you, scrabble is good fun and crosswords too, as long as they're cryptic ones. It's good mental exercise, stimulates the brain and adds years to your life

@Baby_Kina oh my god! You made your dog into shoes? That's so cruel! 😁😂😂

@Rei_90 i love a good pud pud 😊 i made chocolate cheesacakes and mango cheesecakes at work today and had a great time tasting them to make sure they were just right, i was very forensic and diligent in my testing 😁😂

@Katherine-k keep your chin up buttercup. If he values the friendship as much as you do he'll come round. Maybe reach out to him and explain that your silence was an attempt to let the dust settle? I hope things work out, big love to you 🤗😘❤

@ShayThatBae add a slug of Worcestershire sauce and a dash of brandy and you have marie rose sauce, really tasty with prawns

@Lazz my man!

@Rei_90 more art is what the world needs. I know a song about it but i can't upload music on this site which is maddeningly frustrating. Fortunately my bro Lazz always helps me out and i know he'll read this so Lazz, you're on! Endless Art by A House 😁

@Rei_90 Grrrrr! Raging tiger, love it! You're quite the talent

@mk248 mk I'm trying to reply to your dm, my dms are being weird, keeps disappearing when i type but I'll get to you when it sorts itself out. Just wanted you to know I'm not being ignorant. And btw, you are normal, you ain't thinking nothing that isn't natural and healthy

@Sassygirl firstly, you seem great! There's a little validation for you. Secondly you are right on the money. A friend of mine who was studying psychology years ago told me that we all subconsciously need 7 "strokes" ( that's what they term it) a day to maintain our mental health wellbeing and happiness. It can be anything, a smile, a "well done", "i agree", " i hear what you're saying ", a hug.but we all need little subtle signs of approval. We are a social species after all. It stacks up. It doesn't have to be a negative thing, just a reality

@mk248 i have come to accept i need validation, it all stems from an abusive childhood, the usual horror story. Fortunately I've lived my life enough to have fixed myself a great deal so now my validation mostly comes from myself. But external validation from my kids or people i respect in personal and professional life definitely reinforces it. I do remember when i was a blank slate for other people to write their opinions on. It wasn't healthy amd I'm glad i progressed, i had to. But take it where you find it, anything positive is, well... positive! All strength to you

@hannah33 hi Hannah how are things? I always like to say hello to uk people, there aren't many of us here. I can think of 3 off the top of my head apart from me. Where are you? I'm in Scotland obviously 😊

@Matt_Aranha anytime bro, keep your chin up if you can, you're doing all your stuff right, that's all you are responsible for and you do it well. As for other people, well let them hang as they swing, tricky enough to suss out your own mind. Don't drive yourself bananas trying to fathom other people's. That way madness and sleepless nights lie! Fuck 'em. If they're worthy of a place in your life they will show it, if not, good riddance ❤❤❤

@Matt_Aranha oh holy fuck Matt, what a day, i almost don't know where to begin so I'll start with the obvious. Big live for your mum, i can't imagine where your head must be at, i guess i have this road in front of me too. I feel forewarned of the full horrors. Amputation! i have no words man, just brutally awful. Hang in there and be strong for your mum, i know that's what you're already doing. As for your frieed to remember that's her shit, no reflereflection of you. Asore one and a knock to the brain for sure, you must feel betrayed and confused But tryto keep an open mind and let the dust settle Maybe she fell in love with you and freakedmaybe she felt n a sha about her partnerMaye shes a shallow game player she may getback in touch and explain. let the dust settle. either way its all reflection her not youKeep being your brilliant self, that's all you can do here and actually that's mothan more enough. big love

@Matt_Aranha good to know you're hungry again. Was it the heat here that killed it? It's been hot the last 2 days. So, pancakes, combo of gden syrup, lemon juice, brown sugar etc or leek, cheese, cream and bacon sauce? I can never decide which is why i always make tonnes of pancakes and do both 😁

@Alireza-iran i know, i do it myself all the time. I was just kidding 😊 it's actually a sign of intelligence, the mind is working faster than the hands can keep up with

@Trans-No-Pervs option 2 fa shiz!