The wrong person can be the right person if you are willing to make the effort to be YOUR person. Otherwise, you sit patiently and wait for the one that you dont have to ask anything for :). Not for love, affection, honesty, respect, etc. Its quite degrading to have to ask the person you are with for the things they should be willing to give freely. This goes for both men and women!!. If you have to ask your patner for love/sex, and they give you a hard time for wanting to love them, STOP!!!. Stop giving what isnt given!!, stop asking for what you know you cant get!!. If someone wants,they will!!! No excuses, no fuss no shyt!!
#period

So when making cereal, which one should start? Milk or cereal?

So it was decided earlier if TWS could have group chat feature like how linkedin, or reddit have, or facebook. Where users are able to talk to multiple peoples about the things they love simultaneously. In one way or another it might be fun :)

So as TWS users i would like you to choose whether you like this idea or not, and if you do, then how do you like it to be?? Whether there should be ready-made groups where you only join, and you can be invited like whatsapp groups or facebook,, or any user should have an access/powers to create their own groups and add its own members??

Please vote below and tell us why in any choice you make, you are free to make your own new suggestions :)

Ps: there is typo in a poll ,it supposed to be "well there should be ready-made groups"

My heart drop its beats
My mind shakes and trips
The soul lost its mists
Happiness fades in clicks
Smiles breaks in blinks
Loneliness revolting my joy
Joy betraying my smiles
Smiles running from happiness
Happiness bewitched by sadness
Sadness conspiring with stresses
Now stresses feeds me tears
Drowning me in darkness
Choking my courage and hopes
And now im helplessly helpless

This is for all who are depressed and down, wrote down how they feel but hey!! Yes you! Till when you will be sad? Down? Depressed? Happiness is never been sold any where or made in any company, we all create our own smile, its matter of decision, matter of priority things or peoples, we all have people around us who are happy when they see us happy, smile!!
Sometimes You Have To Keep Smiling.

Sometimes you have to keep smiling even when you are broken inside…

Sometimes you pretend to be normal even when everything is against you…

Sometimes you have to show that you are strong for the people who love you because they can’t do anything without you, but knowing you are there to support them they will try…

just so they don’t let you down.
Remember even though the outside world might be raining, if you keep on smiling the sun will soon show its face and smile back at you ~ Anna Lee

A smile is the light in your window that tells others that there is a caring, sharing person inside ~ Denis Waitley

Let my soul smile through my heart and my heart smile through my eyes, that I may scatter rich smiles in sad hearts ~ Paramahansa Yoganandya

I want to touch the heart of the world and make it smile ~ Loyan

When you are in a relationship with a woman, you should always look at what she does and not so much what she says. Since women are emotional beings, their level of interest and comfort with a man is constantly in flux.
A guy who does a good job of always making his woman feel comfortable and safe is going to have a pretty happy woman. 
A guy who does not understand women very well or who does not understand how to read her true level of interest in him is going to feel uncomfortable and unsure of himself in the relationship.

If you are unsure of yourself and where you stand with your woman, she is going to feel this also. This will cause her to feel unsafe and unsure about her feelings towards you and your potential future together. If you are successful at making a woman feel comfortable and safe, there will not be a lot of times where she is doubtful of your future together.

The more comfortable a woman feels with you, the less she will test you. The more she senses weakness and doubts your masculine core, the more she will test you. When a woman senses weakness in her man, she will back away and test.

It is absolutely essential that you understand how to effectively communicate with women if you want to feel safe, secure and loved in your relationships.

When a woman is “tripping” she cares. When a woman is “mad” she believed in you and you let her down. When she’s “asking questions” she is trying to gain clarity. When she’s quiet and letting things “slide” she is giving up. And when she’s not doing any of the above just know you lost a good woman. A pretty face gets old. A nice body will change. But a good woman will always b a good woman. A GOOD WOMAN can only take so much. Don't underestimate her desire be happy even if it means moving on without you.

It feels like a dream
But dont wake me up
It feels like an illusion
But dont tap me awake
Am trapped in your kingdom
But im happy of it
Im obsessed with your beauty
But dont set me free
I am enslaved with your charm
But dont buy me freedom
I am addicted to you
But i dont need rehab
Im blinded by your personality
But i dont need to see

I dream of never losing my family and friends
Or resolving everything and not carrying loose ends.
I dream of stars, of nature, of happy endings and content.
I dream of triumph, of love, of empathy and a life will spent.
I dream of doing what i love, and flying to distant lands,
Sailing on water's and gliding through sands.

Always remain faithful to yo self when the world is screaming at you, demanding you to change. There is nothing worse than watching someone you care about having to go through life ridiculed for being different than the next. For having an opinion on who they are and what they want. For speaking when the crowd is at a hush just to listen to a moron give his take about what's best for everyone.

Dont be slaughtered by the very sheep others show you to be. Become enriched with soul and be fucking boastful about the identity given to you that you have fought to maintain. Dont go gently. Dont go quietly. Dont go at all. Remain in the strange and keep being someone others are unnerved by.

Nothing looks better than wearing sincerity on your heart

“It isn’t what you have or who you are or where you are or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about it.”― Dale Carnegie

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Let’s face it, we all want to be happy.

If you didn’t want to be happy you wouldn’t be reading this.

Most of us talk about how we want to be happy, but we don’t ever seem to get there.

To become happy we don’t need to add more things to our life — we need to give up some of them.

Here is a list of things that you can give up to create more happiness in your life.

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1.Give Up On Your Fears

“Where fear is, happiness is not.” — Lucius Annaeus Seneca

Fear has the ability to take control of your life. It keeps you from doing things that could kill you. It also prevents you from doing things that make you successful.

We can all have fears.

Some of us have a fear of snakes.

Some of us have a fear of heights.

I, for one, have a fear of needles.

Some of us even have a fear of happiness.

It’s true, it’s actually a real fear and it’s called cherophobia.

“Aversion to happiness, also called cherophobia or fear of happiness, is an attitude towards happiness in which individuals may deliberately avoid experiences that invoke positive emotions or happiness.”  wikipedia

There are four major reasons why cherophobes fear happiness:

• They fear that being happy will cause bad things to happen to them
• They fear that happiness will make them a worse person
• They fear that expressing happiness is bad for them and others
• They fear that pursuing happiness is bad for them and others

“Some people — in Western and Eastern cultures — are wary of happiness because they believe that bad things, such as unhappiness, suffering, and death, tend to happen to happy people.”

Unfortunately, fear and happiness can’t exist at the same time.

So, fear becomes a problem if it is keeping you from being happy.

To overcome the cherophobia, you need to start by taking small steps to reduce your fear.

Let yourself feel happy when you have accomplished a difficult task.

Learn to enjoy a beautiful sunrise or sunset.

Enjoy being present with your friends and family.

Once you start being happy with the little things in life, you will see that you have nothing to fear, and you will allow yourself more happiness.

Only then will you be able to break the power of fear in your life and begin to live a happier life.

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2. Give Up On Your Negative Self-talk

“Positive thinking and negative thinking cannot operate at the same level in your mind, one needs to be the master and the one you feed it more will rule over the other.” ― Oscar Bimpong

I am my own worst critic.

I have a constant conversation going on in my head telling me that, “I will never be successful.”

When I forget things it tells me that, “I am such an idiot.”

Lately, it has been telling me that, “I suck at writing” (this one might actually be true).

Negative self-talk leads to poor self-confidence, low self-esteem, and a bad attitude.

Some of the most common forms of negative self-talk include:

• Filtering — when you increase the negative and decrease the positive things in your life.
• Personalizing — when you blame yourself for things that go wrong.
• Polarizing — when you only see things as black and white (this is my favorite).
• Catastrophizing  — when you expect the worst in every situation.

“Never give a negative thought an inch or it will take a mile.” ― Matshona Dhliwayo

Stop!

Change your thinking and turn your negative thought into a positive.

Change…

“I will never be successful” to “I will find a way to make this work.”

“I can’t do this” to “I can learn how to do this.”

“This is impossible” to “I will give it a try.”

You get the idea.

You can change the way you talk about yourself.

It will not happen overnight, and it may take some time, but you can do it.

Learn to be kind, gentle, and encouraging to yourself.

Start by not saying anything to yourself that you wouldn’t say to your best.

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3. Give Up On Your Past

“Just because someone screwed up your past, it doesn’t mean you should give them permission to screw up your future.” — Zig Ziglar

We all have a past.

It can be filled with good experiences, or it can be filled with a bunch of negative crap that is screwing up your present, and even your future.

If you don’t want your future to look like your past, you have to let go of the baggage that is holding you back.

You have to let go of the people who have screwed up your life.

Once you do that, a huge weight will be lifted off of your shoulders, you will immediately feel lighter.

You will finally be able to let yourself be happy.

I know how incredibly hard it can be to let go of the past.

Your past shaped who you are today.

Sometimes your past actually looks better than your present.

But, the present is all that you have.

This moment is the future that you have always dreamed of.

It is the moment where you have to decide to either let the baggage of your past weigh you down or to let it go so that you can be happy now.

Don’t forget that life is a journey, and not a destination.

Don’t carry the baggage of your past with you.

Lighten your load and be a happier traveler.

When you look back, you will be glad that you did.

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4. Give Up On Living Other People’s Dreams

“The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why.” — Mark Twain

Way too many people spend their lives living other people’s dreams.

They are living the dreams of their parents…

Or the dreams of their friends…

Or even the dreams of someone they don’t even know…

They are so busy trying to live up to other people’s dreams for their life, that they are not living their own life.

They don’t know what makes them happy…

What they want…

What they need….

You only have one life and you must live it on your own terms.

Quit living other people’s dreams and find what will make you happy.

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5. Give Up On Seeking The Approval Of Others

“An amazing thing happens when you stop seeking approval and validation: You find it. People are naturally drawn like magnets to those who know who they are and cannot be shaken!”- Mandy Hale

We all want to be liked, but way too many of us are living our lives based on the approval of others.

We spend our lives trying to please others by living up to other their expectations.

There is a huge problem with doing this!

You will never please everyone, and even if do it will not make you happy.

So, give yourself permission to stop trying to please others.

It doesn’t work.

“If you try to please everyone, you end up pleasing [no one], sometimes not even yourself.” — Alok Pandey

Instead, focus on what makes you happy.

The second that you decide to be yourself, and to stop trying to please others, you will find that the right people will be drawn to you.

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6.Give Up Comparing Yourself To Others

“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” — Eleanor Roosevelt

There will always be someone smarter, better looking, and more successful than you.

Always.

You can never win.

So quit comparing yourself to others.

It will not make you happy.

Instead, focus on you.

Your strengths…

The things that make you an awesome individual.

Give up your need to impress others.

The day you stop comparing yourself to others is the day that you will become much happier.

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7. Give Up Negative People

“You cannot expect to live a positive life if you hang with negative people.” ― Joel Osteen

We all have them in our lives.

They are negative…

They complain…

They manipulate…

You know who they are.

Why are you spending time with them?

Why are you are allowing them to steal your happiness?

If you spend your time with negative and unhappy people you will become negative and unhappy.

If you spend your time with positive and happy people, you have a higher probability of becoming positive and happy.

Happy people know that who they surround themselves with can mean the difference between a happy life and a miserable one.

Stop wasting your time with negative and unhappy people.

Get rid of them.

It may be difficult in the beginning, but you will be happy that you did.

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conclusion

“Remember: We all get what we tolerate. So stop tolerating excuses within yourself, limiting beliefs of the past, or half-assed or fearful states.” ―Tony Robbins

Happiness is a choice.

You are in control of your happiness.

Every day you get to choose to be happy or not.

Quit making excuses.

Quit blaming others.

Quit blaming your circumstances.

It’s time to take responsibility for your own happiness.

Well its more like old drawing, using adobe thou

I got inspired by @heyitszoey alot on her recent drawings....

In the Ocean.

I am not so far removed from these guys.

Stunning images capture the incredible life of Borneo's sea gypsies

Surely I can find a way to live, if I had to. For the less cost for putting a station in space, if it is my money, I probably could build a self sustaining city in many parts of the ocean.

Like these people dreams:

or these: sub biosphere, a self-sustaining underwater city

I mean look at these byutiful things,, oh i will choose sea over space 😍

Umm scary movies or tvshows. Cuz why would i scare my self? Afterall i love my self 🙄🙄

Depression, anxiety and panic attacks are NOT a sign of weakness. They are signs of having tried to remain strong for way too long. Did you know that 1 in 3 of us will go through this at some point in our lives? Show support that they are not alone.

“Anxiety is love's greatest killer. It makes others feel as you might when a drowning man holds on to you. You want to save him, but you know he will strangle you with his panic.” ~ Anaïs Nin

“After all, what is happiness? Love, they tell me. But love doesn't bring and never has brought happiness. On the contrary, it's a constant state of anxiety, a battlefield; it's sleepless nights, asking ourselves all the time if we're doing the right thing. Real love is composed of ecstasy and agony.”~ Paulo Coelho

“Anxiety is the dizziness of freedom.” ~ Søren Kierkegaard

Admitting you suffer from any one of those disorders doesn’t mean you are weak but strong enough to realise you are never alone. There are always people willing to help, whether its through medication or having someone to talk to. ~ Kim Miller

If you haven’t experienced it you will never know how this feels & those who have not experienced it, don’t really empathize without you. So seek professional help & know that there is hope. Also pray & do not give up and don’t be ashamed, it could happen to any one. ~ Marianne Fernandez

With cries and heartache
Though it'll agonize me miserably
Options touched the ocean floor
Patience locked the door
Chances meet their maker
Hopes stabbed repeatedly
Faith murdered in cold blood
Next time can't be reborn
Hourglass reached the end
Though i can't live without you
Neither i can't live with you
You are still my beloved
Dwelling deep in my heart
Just dethroned your crown
Yet i admit loving you
And you claim to feel the same
Your actions battle your words
And your eyes betrays your lips
But I'd still hug you smoothly
And kiss you on your forehead with my eyes closed

I wonder, was it just lust?
Was it lust that made me incredibly
Attracted to you?
Was it greed? Was it greed that made me
Want to have you all my self.
Was it because i felt alone?
That i would probably be attracted to
anyone who came my way?

All of the reasons seem wrong, because i
Didn't know lust before i met you, i had
always loved to share so it wasn't greed , i
had all the options in my life to not feel
lonely . So i ask my self , why am i so
Deeply attracted to you?
Then i realized it was only my mind that
was clueless, because my heart knew
well of the reason. It was because i was in
love with you, with no specific reason.

Hmmmmm......lemme think 🤔🤔...graduating!? Does that count?

Falling into pieces
Turned upside down
Ruined and rusted
Elusively blemished
Pitiful  despondent
Lost deep within
Failing every trial
Indeed am falling
Falling into pieces
Pieces i can't recreate
Imagine that feeling of losing
Stuck in your mind
Feeding on your thoughts
Ruthlessly in a barbaric fashion
All odds battle you
Just breath gently
Gather your remains
Colour the somber mood
Cradle back up
Can't nobody fight your wars

Sometimes i want to hide,
From the pain she caused inside.
Sometimes i want to run,
Faraway from what she has done.
Why can't i accept goodbye??
All i want to do is just to scream and cry.
I want to move on,
But i just cant let go.
I know i wasn't the one that was wrong,
Yet i love her more than she will never know.
From all the pain, i want to be free,
But these memories will never leave me.
The pain is there; the pain cuts deep,
Cutting deeper when i remember of the promises she couldn't keep!!.
I want to get rid of her and leave the past behind,
But how can i erase her out of my mind??
All the time i can feel she is near,
Whispering "i love you" in my ear.
And i keep feeling that our love is real,
But i guess its not,, she will never know how i feel