Posts made by Littlelion12

@Rajeev2021 This is why we have to value our family and relationships more. I agree. It makes sense why traditional families survive through the toughest times.

@danelsitar You are truly amazing. I wish our heroes were more revered because of everyone who deserves to live their lives happily it's people like you. I dont take my freedom for granted. It came at a price. I also appreciate you sharing your thoughts

@danelsitar I thank you for your services. I wouldn't have the privileges I have today if it weren't for brave people like you. I'm sorry for your situation though. I'm happy you are still alive.

How does your day to day look like if you dont mind me asking?

@mikeJB I saw the video of Tony Hawk skating with his daughter not sure how old he is now but yeah I agree. Whatever happens when we age depends on us how we take care of ourselves and others etc.

Over 60 is impressive btw!

We're all at risk for that in the future. Think of all the bitter old people who feel trapped in their breaking bodies mentally and physically alone. Think of old people in nursing homes because they're disabled after a hip fracture and no one in the family even cares to visit them. Theres a high depression rate for the elderly in America. 1 in 10 elder people are also reported to deal with elder abuse and that's just the reported instances according to the CDC. Theres a lot that go on with this demographic.

We feel young now and we have strength to do what we have to do. Help an elder today. I swear if you talk to one, theyll talk for hours. Why? Because no one calls them. Even a small hi might make someone's day.

Has anyone ever thought of how they'd be like when they're old? What are your thoughts?

Most people I know want to improve themselves but dont. It's harder to find people who take action toward a goal if they have any to begin with. They're stuck in this juxtaposition between progress and stagnation.

We programmed habits in our minds that affect our choices and beliefs. We can do anything if we could just reframe our way of thinking. We all have unlimited potential to accomplish anything, but the thought of that is pain.

Why is it painful to think of progress? It's the nature of our minds to preserve the body. If you experienced pain from something like a relationship you may hesitate and hold yourself back from completely giving all of you to anyone. Maybe you put some effort into getting fit, tried it failed, and only remember how draggy it was to get up and "just do it." This just means your brain is doing its job to provide a sense of security.

With that in mind it helps to know the 4 elements of success. The first one is potential which is something we all have and something that doesn't change in value. The second is action what do we do to reach our goal. Third is the results how did the result of our action impact us? We all succeeding in something yet we still doubt ourselves. Fourth element is belief.

Belief is the Integral part of success. How we talk to ourselves set us up for how we go about accomplishing stuff. Taking action is great but where we place our focus impacts how we perform and allows us to tap into confidence and our potential. It's the difference of asking ourselves, "how can I get this done?" Verses "will I be able to pull this off?"

Having the attitude of doubt will only bring us to perform tasks in pain, keeping us from enjoying the process and performing at 100 due to our lack of confidence. Tony calls that "the death rattle of personal success"

Anyway if you read this far cool. What are your success stories/thoughts on this?

@Dyutchy I'm a female but certainly not ugly lol

@Dyutchy That's a straight lie unless you're weird but you have genetic advantage

@sarah_the_magpie said in What should be the age to lose Virginity:

@Mishal-khan
as late as possible. losing your virginity at the tender age of 50 would be ideal

Sounds a bit too soon imo but to each their own. 🤷‍♀️

@Hyde you're welcome

@cyberosy :) I'm glad to hear that.

(0:01) Ch. 1 Don't Try

(35:11) Ch. 2 Happiness Is a Problem

(1:04:24) Ch. 3 You Are Not Special

(1:40:09) Ch. 4 The Value of Suffering

(2:24:00) Ch. 5 You Are Always Choosing

(3:04:06) Ch. 6 You're Wrong About Everything (But So Am I)

(3:53:59) Ch. 7 Failure Is the Way Forward

(4:20:18) Ch. 8 The Importance of Saying No

(5:01:06) Ch. 9 ...And Then You Die

(5:35:21) Acknowledgments

(5:37:40) About the Author

Listen to an audiobook. This is something I feel like you might benefit from. This book addresses how to look at failure and problems in a productive/realistic perspective.Listen and rest your eyes.

@Scottish said in Looking for midgets:

@yErMoMgEi1 Mia, true story, about 5 years ago i was trying to brush someone off,make her think it was me not her. So i told her i was too freaky sexually. Everything bit of bullshit i told her though, she was willing to try. The "i think we should just be friends" moment only arrived when i told her i like to have my ass fingered while i watch midget porn. The depths i had to sink to to shake her off! 😁

You sir are way too kind putting yourself through embarrassment like that just to save face. Lmao

@smartalan180 it is lol

Seems like they dont work. Hasn't worked for me so far. Why dont they change how it works?

Interesting place to look for a serious relationship

20 mins early. It's easy to kill time on the phone and theres less stress getting to my appointments. I'd hate to drive all the way to somewhere only to find I missed a deal or something lol

@Dyutchy lol you can get a cute girl if that's legit your profile pic. Why are you selling yourself short?

Basic girls who only think about themselves.