Hello everyone, Im Sall a 26 old male and Master`s student in the UK.
Ok.. I just wanna share this story with you guys... I need you all to judge my decision! Ok... I started dating this girl when I was 21 and now Im 26. She is a 28 years old and a divorced Mom with two little cute girls. I know her cuz she is my sister
s friend and I used to see her when she used to come to our house to see and chat with my sister. Anyway, so long story short, I strated talking to her and we started going out but not always, cuz she is busy always with her kids. So, during the relationship I always asked her "why dont you bring your kids? so they at least would know me" and she would reply by saying "not yet, wait. I will introduce you to them when time is right" and this time guys never came......This shows that she is not serious about our relationship or she just dont trust me! I ignored this and trusted her and time went by as usual I would see her once in a week and this lasted for a bit of time..... So, some time passes and then this what happens: I told her Im about to travel to the UK and stay for a bit to do my Masters but I told her that I would call her always so she wont miss me that much. However, during the last year in the early days of August and when I was about to travel to the UK in September, started ignoring me like not caring to call or message me unless I fucking ask every time and her attitude lasted until last week, and before this moths went by she didnt call and never came to the airport to say good bye as she promised.
So, suddenly she appears and sends me a text via snapchat (cuz its a thing back home lol) saying that she misses me and other bs So, I said its ok im not angry on you but pls if u dont like me just tell me its ok I will understand and I will not hate you just tell me the truth but she kept saying I really want you. So guys this what happened this week:
1- I tried calling her for like 3 times but she didn't answer me..
2- So, I decided to message her on Whats app but her sister was using that phone number (she got two phones, one for work and the second is private) so I was blocked there.
3-Finally, she used snapchat to chat and tell me that this all happened (her sister blocking me and she didn't answer my phone) and stuff
So, I tried to call her one more time but she didnt answer my call and then again she told me on snapchat that she would take a shower and then she would be able to answer me but i refused to call her and said, I will not call you from now on, she replied that she will explain but she didnt say anything after that until yesterday when I sent her another message teeling her this "I dont deserve to be treated like this, goodbye" and guess what happened guys? she actually replied by saying I will get back to you once I get ready for work and now the time is 2:50 am.
Am I right in doing this or should I go and talk to her?
I feel like i have been humiliated because of my sincerity, I had many other chances with other girls but I like to think I wasted my time with her.
Sorry guys my English is shit and I`m high atm.******