@liBor same.. i need someone to talk with..
My gf is kind of wired I don't know what to do so pls help me
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thanks bro for your help
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@Madhan089 of course. I know it sucks to hear that moving on is your best option but think about it... If you've genuinely not done anything wrong and she won't explain then how can she expect you to stay? 6 months is just disrespectful. You obviously have communication issues and you'll have many other issues on top of what you already have. 6 months!? She's a different person now. People can change drastically in 6 months. Neither of you know each other anymore basically. Know your worth and respect yourself and respect her too. Move on for the sake of both your mental health
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Your right bro
Thank u so much for your help
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@Madhan089 said in My gf is kind of wired I don't know what to do so pls help me:
She mostly ignores me
... the heck is wrong with her. if i were you, i'd ignore her back lmao. it's petty, i know. but it's only fair because you don't even get a proper closure yourself.
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Yeah your right sister
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@Musa7 said in My gf is kind of wired I don't know what to do so pls help me:
@Madhan089 of course. I know it sucks to hear that moving on is your best option but think about it... If you've genuinely not done anything wrong and she won't explain then how can she expect you to stay? 6 months is just disrespectful. You obviously have communication issues and you'll have many other issues on top of what you already have. 6 months!? She's a different person now. People can change drastically in 6 months. Neither of you know each other anymore basically. Know your worth and respect yourself and respect her too. Move on for the sake of both your mental health
i agree, wholeheartedly. all this bitterness and disappointment though... i can practically taste it through the screen. is this all coming from personal experience, kiddo?
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Yeah sister
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@Madhan089 keep your chin up, brother. <33
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@writtenbyviolet wait are you asking me if I've had personal experience like this?? Haha
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I honestly think you should just leave her.....
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@Musa7 because goodness gracious you sound like you had several down your belt.
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@writtenbyviolet oh noo I'm all good. I just spoke logically. I love to help people and a lot of people come to me for help. Within my friends, my nickname has become Wise Musa because I guess I speak words of wisdom. I'm a very positive, optimistic and motivational guy. In this case of helping him, it's only logical to leave the girl.. 6 months of not talking is no relationship or at least not a healthy one
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@writtenbyviolet thank u for helping me sister now my way is clear
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@Celosa I don't about that sis
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@Celosa I don't know about that sis
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@Musa7 I agree to your word bro
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@Musa7 said in My gf is kind of wired I don't know what to do so pls help me:
@writtenbyviolet oh noo I'm all good. I just spoke logically. I love to help people and a lot of people come to me for help. Within my friends, my nickname has become Wise Musa because I guess I speak words of wisdom. I'm a very positive, optimistic and motivational guy. In this case of helping him, it's only logical to leave the girl.. 6 months of not talking is no relationship or at least not a healthy one
Awww, you're so wholesome and it's nice to see. Thank you for sharing such kind words on this site with us. Or should I say.. my greatest thanks to the Wise Musa for gracing us with his holy presence?
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@writtenbyviolet hahahaha love that. You're great! You helped him too, don't forget that :)
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@Madhan089 said in My gf is kind of wired I don't know what to do so pls help me:
Here is my story
My gf is not talking to me for the past 6months
She only proposed me first and said some kind of words like don't leave me pls
We don't talk often
I gave her a lot of space
But still she is not talking to me
I don't even hurted her
I don't even talk dirty to her
So friends pls help me what I have to do with herShe prOly ghosted u bro. Or maybe her phone is broken. Or maybe she's going through stuffs and wanna deal with it alone.
My best advice would be to exhaust all the communication means to have at your disposal to reach out to her. Be patient while you keep on with your own stuff
. If she loves you she'll come around with an explanation maybe.
But do not accept her if she comes after you've accomplished something great with your life! ITrus
T me if a girl suddenly reappears in your life after ghosting you for months and it's now that you got Shi going on she's interested, Say BIG NO TO HER WITH COLD BALLS Face.Cuz she's probably in for your money or social status, in other words (trying to use you). Ik I went a bit xtreme,but it's better to have all the keys at your hand than to have none. Some girls do use guys and vice-versa
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@Kaneki-kun yeah I agree