@No_ Stay the way I am. I'm not sure what you mean with 'living a life full of everyday struggles' because everybody has struggles. It's not like if you're rich, good looking and have an amazing personality that you don't have struggles. They're just different struggles. Point is, everybody has struggles. For me personally, I'm thankful for the life I have and I'm very happy with it so I'll definitely stick with the way I am. Interesting question btw :)
@Madhan089 of course. I know it sucks to hear that moving on is your best option but think about it... If you've genuinely not done anything wrong and she won't explain then how can she expect you to stay? 6 months is just disrespectful. You obviously have communication issues and you'll have many other issues on top of what you already have. 6 months!? She's a different person now. People can change drastically in 6 months. Neither of you know each other anymore basically. Know your worth and respect yourself and respect her too. Move on for the sake of both your mental health
Hey! I just joined this app/website. I just read through this discussion or whatever and wanted to leave this message since you guys seem heated. I hope you're both doing okay. I'd love to make some friends so if you need somebody to talk to then I'll be here :)
Anything goes. Give me your best joke. Crack me up and I'll DM you and we can be friends haha
@No_ I understand. Tbh though, I'd prefer to live a long life. I know people say they don't wanna get old and have back problems and knee problems etc. But to me, there's more to life than just going to school, then uni and then working a 9-5 job and that's it. Not that there's anything wrong with that. If that's what you want then my all means go for it. But I feel there's just so much more to life and there's so much to explore and do. So much growth out there. (1/2)
@animeelizabeth Bit rude but Imma say fuck you and peace out
@Musa7 I feel from when you're born till you finish uni, you're almost forced into living by the system. Once you're out of uni which is like 21-23 at the earliest is when you really start to live life and you can do whatever the hell you want and you can gain so much experience. That's when you can really take control.
@Heccikage Almost everything really. It's home to me :)
Yes ma'am. You don't seem lost at all
Hey! I'm pretty bored so thought I'd post this to get some conversations going. DM me if you like. I'd love to meet you !
@writtenbyviolet hahahaha love that. You're great! You helped him too, don't forget that :)
@writtenbyviolet oh noo I'm all good. I just spoke logically. I love to help people and a lot of people come to me for help. Within my friends, my nickname has become Wise Musa because I guess I speak words of wisdom. I'm a very positive, optimistic and motivational guy. In this case of helping him, it's only logical to leave the girl.. 6 months of not talking is no relationship or at least not a healthy one
@writtenbyviolet wait are you asking me if I've had personal experience like this?? Haha
@Madhan089 of course. I know it sucks to hear that moving on is your best option but think about it... If you've genuinely not done anything wrong and she won't explain then how can she expect you to stay? 6 months is just disrespectful. You obviously have communication issues and you'll have many other issues on top of what you already have. 6 months!? She's a different person now. People can change drastically in 6 months. Neither of you know each other anymore basically. Know your worth and respect yourself and respect her too. Move on for the sake of both your mental health
@Madhan089 Then it's time for you to move on brother. Of she's not giving you an explanation then what more can you do? You have to put yourself first here. She's being really unfair to you and you need to prioritise your own mental health and wellbeing too. Move on. Live your life and find somebody new too. I'm honestly mind blown how a person that claims to love you hasn't been talking to you for the past 6 months
Honestly, talk to her and be direct and get it out of her. I'm sure you've done that multiple times though. It's been 6 months. That's mind blowing to me. I'm not sure if you can be in a relationship and not talk to the person you love for a week let alone 6 months. Maybe it's time to move on? You deserve better. Either a genuinely REALLY good explanation or get out of that toxic relationship. Unless of course you have done something wrong but you're not being true to yourself. Only you can tell.
@anonymous7 but... my heart:disappointed: