Emotional Chaos
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Somehow i just want to let this out and i need honest advice and opinions.
I got to know a guy almost 8 Years ago in Brasil. After few Months of knowing each other i left the Country with my Family to europe. The guy made known to me personally that he loves me and wants to marry me even before leaving Brasil. But he could not make it open because i was 15 Years then and he was 25. After leaving the Country we kept in touch and after like three years outside the Country, the distance began tiring me as i got into college. I began questioning my feelings for him. And after certain months of doubt, i decided to tell him how i feel. Telling him not to hope on me. I ended d relationship on my side buh we still kept in touch. He still sometimes write how he loves me and stuff and that he is trying his best to leave the Country to europe. Few days ago he got to know that i am dating someone else since three years now, after he asked me and since then he posts random pictures of a girl with lovely comments. I noticed that i felt somewhat jealous and wished i was that girl.
i don't know why my emotions are playing crazy with me. I love my boyfriend but i can't be together with the other guy because of the distance and other circumstances.
What are your advice?
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Love is the entire point of everything
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i could write an essay on the topic XD, but i'll try sparing you the boring stuff..
i personally describe it like flying, you feel wheightless, kind of an overwhelming happiness! Also, love can come in many forms, like stated above, its not monotone. You can feel all kinds of true love, for your family, friends, platonic love and yes, the so called romantic love
and all forms are equally amazing.It is true that maintaing love is hard work and not a bed of roses as @Lïa said, but at the same time i also believe that it should be natural and most of the times it is, since you cant really force something that's between two different people (or you definitely shouldnt, as you also should not give up on it if your heart doesnt want to).
On one hand, and i think that this particularly apllies to you, it requires a level of vulnerability that can be hard for most of us, especially in the first stages of love or when we are not sure about what the other is thinking. On the other hand, love usually fails when there is unbalance in the relationship.. the feeling of love can be intoxicating and you should always try to maintain perspective of yourself and what you want or are aiming for in life, in a broader sense. There is not one love in life, but there should always be love in your heart.
You can only truly love others when you love yourself, and that is a tough lesson to learn.
As everything has a soundtrack in my head XD, i'll leave you with a song i heard a while ago, but came to me when i first read your post.
I'm done ranting XD. Hope it makes sense.«Love is not something you try to do, it wants to be the thing compelling you..to be you.»
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@Ruth dayum
You don't talk like a 12 yr dw
Why do you think like that
I said that cause i was a dumb pig when i was 18
So i am glad new generation isn't like that
As a senior old lady i am happy for yu guys
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@Ruth damn ruth why are you already so mature at this age
I am so so glad for you 🥺
You are so right when you feel desperate for things you make wrong choices, i am so proud of you 🥺
Damn you are already a big girl now
Lots of love and wishes for you ️️
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No words. It is different for all.
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Ikr my past relationships were a wake up call for me from the fairytale i was living in when i was a teen
Like you i also love to know about the experiences of people, it gives us better understanding of situations and we get to know a different perspective,which feels magical.
But again experiencing it yourself is way more magical and fun
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From my experiences falling for someone is easy, but truly loving them through thick and thin isn't, so i believe love is hard. I don't get it when people say that love shouldn't be hard, it should be natural for it to work.
Loving is just not missing someone, wanting to spend time with them.
Loving is working on things together with your partner, making it work despite harsh situations,circumstances. Loving is accepting each others flaws and wokring on one's self development, where you just don't sit on the shit( problems ) you clean it and work on it. And it's not easy, especially when you are not mentally and emotionally mature enough to understand things and deal with them properly.
When you are with someone you don't just get to know that person only, you also get to know more about yourself as well, and trust me knowing and accepting ourself is harder than accepting others
And i would say accepting ourselves and others doesn't mean we are gonna ignore or put up with the poor behaviour, both party needs to work on it.
So my dear @Ruth it has always been this kind of love in my life where it takes time,efforts,forgiveness,acceptance, self improvement to truly love someone.
Or maybe i was just too fucked to begin with that's why i had it hard 
And i feel like i got distracted from the main topic idk
Anyways if you need advice about love life you know who to ask right
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Hi @sul99 .. 5 to 6 yrs friendship only not understanding us correctly .. how come 5 to 6 mins chat will decide friendships.. it’s quite tuff,, anyways u try .. u may get…
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@im_tired ...i was saying atleast you HAVE A FAMILY well family issues I can understand about that tho yea they VERY discriminate against children and i hated it lol also about that they never had time apparently ugh
parents Can't even appreciate US
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Friends should be told in order to hear what they think
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@im_tired is this a joke
