Look if shes that far gone unfortunately she aint the one for you.
Advice on social skills
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I got zero social skills, I can't even begin a conversation and I know how important social skills are, got any advice?
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Just be yourself and try , if those people deserve to talk to you , they definately will
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Idk sorry bro
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@happymiss be myself? what kind of garbage advice is this. (B99 reference) but honestly, it won't work.
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@martin488 ur right be he tried lol
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@Al_Fredo No problem, thanks for listening
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Your welcome dude on TWS you either a hater or fan imma fan your posts are funny asf lol.
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@Al_Fredo hmm thanks
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@martin488 Lol !! Atleast try it once and then tell me if it doesn't works...why do u need anyone else's attention..social skills r important but do not give anyone more importance than urself charles(b99)..lol
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@happymiss you misunderstood, I never said about attention, I mean as a social being literally every human is dependent on others, we can try to minimise the dependence but we cannot end it, we are evolved like that, got deviated, I just meant it would be better to have social skills, learning them is kind of self uprgadation I guess.
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@D1Vine hmm thanks
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@Bela-Hella Ikr, I've been trying this, thanks for suggestion
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So , for starters, (imo), it depends on why do you intend to have a conversation, most of the times, conversations have a end goal or a point to reach at. For example, I initiated this conversation with you, to understand what part of the social skill set you WANT to learn
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@SquishyPoTATo I don't understand that part myself, I guess the basis of us humans socialising is that we are able to rely on others when needed help, so I guess you can say I need backup for myself when I need help (here by help I meant technical help, and not emotional/mental)
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@martin488 u can rely on me whenever u want ...... i'll never be ur backup
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@happymiss Just what I expected from you thanks for not letting me down but at the same time letting me down lol
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@martin488 Yup that sense of community is what's essential to survival. So going back to your original question, something specific on your mind that you wish to investigate?
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@SquishyPoTATo umm I don't understand what you said
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@martin488 I was referring to your statement about human beings needing to socialize when they require help - Its a trait required to survive as a species since when we wore nothing but animal hide.