I need everyone's help
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@mrad step number 1:dude just be you
Girls at first are not so nice to talk to,but give her that nice smile and start asking her about random stuff,then ask her about her name what she likes and etc,so the point is never talk about yourself when your talking to a girl,just listen that's all she wants and needs -
@peanutbutter well its a no go to approach females in public and im not confident to approach girls in my college. I feel intrusive if i just suddenly walk into their group. The other option is the half marriage half prostitution option here to which i say no thanks.
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@ant-man seems like a relation not built on mutual respect but as a situational convinience but it might help with my confidence.
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@mrad phone bro,phone number
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@mrad btw I'm just like.you
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@ant-man eh thats the easy part. I already have a few but it feels rude to just call or text them
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@mrad where's your balls man ?playing pool with them ?get them back and own them
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@mrad I see what you mean. Have you talked to your mom about this? I understand cultural boundaries and norms, believe me, I do. But your mom may actually have more insight into a female's mind and what would be acceptable in your society. -in case you haven't noticed, I'm a goodie two shoes who believes in open communication with parents.
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@ant-man im just a nice guy...maybe too nice but thats what i keep saying. I couldnt even hold a grudge for more than 4 hours.
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@mrad up top 😂same here,and I'm arabian btw 🤗and muslim,so culture isn't really the problem
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@peanutbutter her idea would be either we'll have you marry your cousin which is no or she will be too intrusive on my life that it would annoy me
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@ant-man im not muslim but culture would still not be a problem. Its just my personality i just dont like hurting people in anyway.
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@mrad hahaha, well, look on the bright side- you wouldn't have to take too long getting to know her 😝
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@mrad I'm an American Muslim, I converted a few years back and I haven't found it hard to meet people. But like you said, I just don't want to hurt anyone or get hurt, so I'm taking my time finding the right person. Gotta base everything on the right intentions
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@peanutbutter no...just no
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And ye of little faith doubted we could make this post popular in just a few hours
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@mrad by the way, no such thing as being too nice ;)
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@peanutbutter said in I need everyone's help:
@mrad by the way, no such thing as being too nice ;)
Hopefully you'll find someone as nice as you.Ehhhhhhh...god i wish we had tinder here.
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@mrad I wonder if tinder actually makes people happier though... The studies I've been reading show that people are feeling lonlier than ever
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@peanutbutter well at this point ill take anything. Even long distance relationships. But with the girls at my college? Well....i checked and i have no chance.
