Friends are something that an average person needs. Humans are just made that way. But I think it's not correct to think that friends can fix everything, as well as that friends will stay in your life forever. Throughout life you will meet dozens of people and make many friends. But only one or two out of hundreds will be something you may call a "real friend". That's if you are lucky enough to meed someone with similar mindset and values that you have. People you call 'friends' will walk out of your life for different reasons (they may be insignificant or important) and will stay with you for different amounts of time. That's why I think that it's better if you put yourself/your life/feelings first most of the times when it comes to your friends. You can stay in a really good relationship with them even if you don't always put them first or give all of yourself into these relationships. Because each one of us have their own lifes to take care of. Those people who will want to stay with you and will understand you/love you - will stay. And those who don't - won't. Whatever you do for them. It depends on the mindset of the other party. Loving, helping, caring for your friends is great, but if you put them above other important things like yourself, then they will get used to it. And most people won't do the same for you or will try to use your love for their own emotional self-satisfaction. That's just how it is. So I think you just need to do everything in moderation and state values right in life.
Which is painful A broken trust or faded love???
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@bela hahah thats the sweetest thing ever bela... i pity those girls though...lololol
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@g-a yeah man i get u, but still, asking for a chance is easier than giving someone a chance, eh?
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@barton ikr strong bela w/ a sweetsoul whaha..true love comes on right time for u balu
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@barton yes, indeed. But again, i am weak when a girl asks me "a second chance". For whatsoever her fault is, i forgive her 😂
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@g-a aww..u hav such a big hrt g...hope some girl see it someday... ;)
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@bela i appreciate ur enthusiasm bela, but dont make it sad now... :D
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@bela when did it become a who-will-first-find-love-contest... 8l
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@bela i already have @WtfJudith :) so, no worries bela.
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@g-a in your dreams buddy :D (jzt kiddn)
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@barton you too dude :) i wish you have a girl who loves you endlessly.
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@g-a and i hav_____...mm...hmmm...
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@g-a ahh...jzt stop it alrdy ..am nt playn anymor... :/
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@barton she is enough for me dude 😀 and be like this is enough for me.
I was such a mess person and a loser for almost a year after my bad experience with my ex gf like i still loved her even she left me. Then, around March this year, that girl came back and said that she is pregnant. I think i almost do the craziest thing ever to be a responsible person for her pregnancy. Then, suddenly on April, i figured out that girl is pregnant because of my bestie, my best dude ever. Then, she left me and married my bestie on June 23rd. Btw, she was my only girl ever for almost 6 years. So?
I guess if i never met this @WtfJudith may be i am not exist in this world (tws) and may be i am giving up with my life. i am done speaking
For me, it does not even matter about bonding or a relationship status. :) -
@barton lol okay dude :p
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@g-a wow...dats as twisted as indian soaps man...let judi reply abt dat tomrw... must be fun..lol
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@barton said in Which is painful A broken trust or faded love???:
@g-a wow...dats as twisted as indian soaps man...let judi reply abt dat tomrw... must be fun..lol
Let us see her respond or may be she is just doing walk away as usual @Barton