What's the deal??

[VickyToria0917]

My boyfriend and I hardly ever have sex anymore and when we do he focuses on porn videos. I'm left feeling awkward and unattractive, he pays attention to the porn and not me, he doesn't engage in any intamacy its like I'm not even there. Why doesn't he acknowledge me when we are having intercourse? I feel so ugly especially since he always tells me No or he's tired. It's only when he is in the mood and when that happens I'm ignored and he hardly looks up from the screen. I've tried asking him to not watch the videos but shortly after we start he's trying to sneak peek at the porn I've just given in and now he just gets his and I'm left feeling unsatisfied what should I do? Does this mean I'm no longer desirable to him?

[Savage368]

@vickytoria0917 have you ever try talking to him about it?

[VickyToria0917]

@im-a-bae yes all he says is there isn't anything wrong with me,

[Savage368]

@vickytoria0917 how long has this been going on?

[VickyToria0917]

@im-a-bae a few months maybe, I'd I'd say maybe 6 months

[Savage368]

@vickytoria0917 6 months is a very long time to hold all this in and how long have guys been together for?

[[[global:former-user]]]

@vickytoria0917 oh damn, should we discuss about some position too like WoT or MoT?

[VickyToria0917]

@im-a-bae almost a year now. He always has excuses or says yes we can have sex and all of a sudden starts doing something last minute he says is important

[Savage368]

@vickytoria0917 has it ever crossed your mind maybe he's cheating on you or acting strange around you?

[Lurker]

@vickytoria0917

That's a complete lack of respect by your bf. How do you even agree he watches porn when he's at it with you?
I know you love him and I hope things gets settled, but he doesn't deserve you doing such things

[VickyToria0917]

That's crossed my mind before, but I don't think he is cheating we are always around one another if he was cheating at least that would explain things lol

[challakrishna23]

Having real fun on b ...

[Unknown4123]

@vickytoria0917 Leave him.
Come with us. Me and @WtfJudith Are buying a bigger bed now.
You are welcome.

[WtfJudith]

@vickytoria0917 yes, my wife @Rendezvous and I are trying to spice things up if you're interested

[Chocolate]

@vickytoria0917

Listen darling, I see it as a good and bad situation.

The good: He could be messing with you and might be planning something for u

The bad : He's cheating.

Either way, he obviously ain't pleasuring you right if y'all haven't had sex.. might as well come over here baby girl

[Le0nard0]

@chocolate you are funny