I just discovered ANR/ABF, and I'd like to talk about it.

  • My wife and I have been married for 8 years this coming July. We've have tried different sexual adventures but since my wife has vaginismus those adventures don't last. In her own words to me, "it's better when it is over quickly."

    I enjoy the foreplay and taking our time. I feel like ANR/ABF could be really nice... Except she was constantly in pain while pumping milk for our two kids. In short, if I was ever able to enjoy ANR/ABF it would have to be with another woman, or I should let my desire for it die out...

  • Unless you have no teeth it is logical that it would painful. A baby forces the milk out by pushing the aeriola against the roof of its mouth, if there are teeth the nipple will be rubbed against them. And cheating on your wife and children will bring you all problems later. You can never rely on how 3rd parties will behave.