@Zidane-T BWHAHSD i’m sorryyyyyyyyy
Is being emotionless good or bad?
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I thinks its bad
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@hermes I don't know how it can be anything but bad. Being emotionless is similar to lacking empathy, something psychopaths have, and without emotion you won't care about anything, and so life just wouldn't be worth living. Your emotions drive everything, what you want, what's your desires, what you'll eat that day, everything, so without emotions, you would probably never make a decision.
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If you were emotionless, you technically wouldn't even be able to tell if it's good or bad. You basically wouldn't even be able to form an opinion of it.
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@evan-elderson yeah, relationships will fall apart if only one person isn't open and honest with how they feel. I had to learn that the hard way.
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@evan-elderson I'm glad you're figuring out the problem and trying to fix it. It's nice that you want to fight for it, there's a real hope there then. I've gotten to the opposite, where instead of wanting to save it, I want to let it go. It took a bit to realize it, and every day something new comes up to make me realize that I'm done with it.
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@evan-elderson thank you. I really appreciate that. I sort of understand what your wife is feeling, and unfortunately for you, it may not end well. Everyone's different and maybe she'll realize she never needed it. How long have you been together?
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@evan-elderson hi. Its so interesting to hear you speak like that. Im also married, f, trying to stay married. Trying to Keep myself in the marriage, as we have kids and divorce would be hard.. I owe it to mt kids to try to give them the best life i can.. but i feel so stuck personally and i feel like personally i have very few motivation to keep the relationship. And thats what the relationship is.. work.. if you ever wanna talk.. im around we can share ideas. Id love to pick your brain
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@evan-elderson coming from a wife forgiving and trying to forget atrocities. Its very hard to look at the husband and not see the hurtful things, not remember the acts the words.. even when you try. In my case its very hard to open myself again once i keep getting hurt and keep dealing with hurtful situations over and over for over 8 yes even when he has promised to change and work on himself
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@evan-elderson I don't really think it's fair in either direction. I think if you've been forgiven for it, then she should move past it. You can't change what happened in the past, just how you are now, and it's not fair to you now. You can be upset, it's fine.
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