I don't think we "deserve" anything. We get what we get and thats that.
I dont know what to make from this
Some time ago, i made a pretty big mistake and wondered about things. One of those things was, how big my influence really is...hom much of a difference my oppinion makes. Because i sometimes just have the feeling to loose control over a situation, like an argument, and later on I feel guilty for not acting properly in that moment. And so, I have a big problem, when something doesnt go acording to my plans...so i just wanted to ask, what you guys think about it, or what you would advice me.
Thanks in addvance
@syler1998 i know what you feeling it happens to me as well, what i do is try get out of the situation, go cool down in my room, but if it gets to an argument and i feel guilty after i try appoligise and show them i mean it by helping them out
@seb1 its not like iam getting angry or so...just me feeling i was wrong all allong, and my opposite partner was right
@syler1998 yes. try compromise, listen to each other and work together is
my advice is to carry a bottle of water,and everytime u feel the urge to loose control drink water,still not in control sit down,still not in control walk away.
only respond after 5 minutes of an incident that triggers you.
you need to find your introvert friend.. learn from him/her.