• I've been asking myself this same question , and still does , I've dated not too little numbers of guys in the past , at first my heart really did move , get excited either by just talking to them or seeing them , but as days past by , I would feel all the excitement and longing fading away , I'm really worried ,that I will never be stable , I'm starting to get to get worried that maybe there's something wrong with me.

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  • We must first distinguish the feeling that we feel from other feelings so that we do not miscalculate, so we reach a stage where we misunderstand ourselves and its needs and requirements and what is going on in it. Losing its meaning or misunderstanding it is worse than anything else


  • @The-Mods thank you for sharing this


  • @Unknownflower
    Go in front of mirror. Look at ur pupil and think about that person. If pupil expands then u r in love with that person.
    *ps. There might be possibility pupil will not expand but u may feel u r in love. In that case follow ur instinct


  • For me I guess it when u don't get the ick from them. And you just no u can trust them. There's no doubt in u thinking like "does he really love me" and u should'nt be scared to open up to them


  • Best way to figure out is to talk to them and be a friend ...see if u hv similar interests if not its not worth it ...hanging on to something uncertain can lead to heartbreak ...which I'm telling you is so much painful...so if u get any signs that they are not into you as much as you are ...move forward and find happiness in something else....


  • @unknownflower Its easy to fall in love, as easy to fall out of it xD once the exciting part of the romance ends, the relationship will either fade away or become stronger. Sometimes it grows stronger, the excitement replaced by a feeling of being comfortable and just coexisting with that person, as a true friendship. It always has an end though. Thats the downside of falling in love, things arent going to last forever, sadly.

    This is what I can tell you from my personal experience and of what Ive seen in other couples. Just enjoy it while it last and make it have a meaning.