Cant bring myself to be a loving responsible daughter

[salvation]

Im struggling to apologize right now. My mom was yelling at me for not taking care of myself, and that im not studying at all. She says she just wants me to be like my friends. Heres the thing, ive been so hooked up with being different its like an obsession. Anyway my grandmas really sick and is kind of dying and i have no idea how to even comfort my mom. Im so terrible at this that my mom thinks i dont care? But i genuinely want to show her love and stuff but now that we argued i dont want to just go to her. Its like i feel so up to doing it but then theres always something pulling me back? Why?

[Afeia Estick]

Figure out your problem first if you're not studying and practicing good hygiene something must be wrong either no one taught you or you suffer a mental illness...if so you need to talk to someone anyone who can help

[justB]

Don't try to be like someone, try to be the best version of yourself. Moms wants what is best for their children, so try to please her in some ways. Be responsabile and confort her.

[TM]

@salvation That's a result of a wrong family vibes tbh , in my opinion whenever your parents uses there daughter or son as a tool of " showing off " among society then it's a bad thing to go with ... parents should understand that comparisons among children that creates jealousy is distructive to the kid's personality

[Charlish]

@salvation don't take ur mom's words so seriously , she is just comparing u with others which isn't a good thing. Focus on what u should be focusing on. In free time, think about ways to comfort ur mom.