I need help..am pregnant and we broke up with the father of the baby

[Eucalyptus]

@Undecided Sounds like a tough situation to be in! I hope you figure it out!!

[ssll sg]

@Eucalyptus

try to read the correspondence between me and @Janet.i
believe ive already explained it in details what i meant when i gave that examples.if you still dont understand,then,ask me again.

you know what?
im too lazy to wait.so,heres a simplified explanation

@Janet made a claim saying

''Because having sex has the chance of having a baby. If you aren't capable of taking responsibility of the possible outcome of a child then fucking don't have sex.''

so,she explicitly making a statement that you shouldnt have had sex because the bad outcome would be having an unwanted pregnancy.

so,her first principle is

'dont do anything because of the possible bad outcome that can arise from that'

so,my arguments are that theres plenty of mundane activity that we do in our daily life that can lead to bad outcome as well.so,should we stop doing that?

[Eucalyptus]

@ssll-sg I just pointed out the flaws in your logic..
If you still don't understand. Just read it again a few times, slowly

[ssll sg]

@Eucalyptus said in I need help..am pregnant and we broke up with the father of the baby:

If you still don't understand. Just read it again a few times, slowly

the same goes to you,buddy.
read my previous comment.read it reaaaaaaal slow.k?

[Eucalyptus]

@ssll-sg

Owning a knife doesn't result in stabbing someone, swinging it around does.

Owning a car doesn't result in you ramming someone, driving irresponsibly does (ofcourse there are incidents where someone else is at fault, but that counts in the situation of getting pregnant as well, like sex being forced on you or a broken condom)

Eating food doesn't result in you getting fat, eating unhealthy food and not moving your butt does....

So, no, you didn't have a point at all..

Having semen and oocytes doesn't result in getting an unwanted pregnancy.. Having (unprotected) sex does..

Now read all of that very slowly and carefully, since your brain seems to have a hard time processing information :)

[Eucalyptus]

@ssll-sg I read it all, I don't see you making any valid points to back up your argument...

[ssll sg]

@Eucalyptus said in I need help..am pregnant and we broke up with the father of the baby:

Having semen and oocytes doesn't result in getting an unwanted pregnancy.. Having (unprotected) sex does..

first of all,its OVUM.oocytes is immature ovum that is incapable of fertilization.
arent you ashamed to be this ignorant,boy?

secondly,if you cant even comprehend the logic and common sense ive presented and simplified it for your sake,then,i guess,youre as bad in english comprehension as you are ignorant in human biology.

my advice?
educate yourself,boy!

LOL!
its funny to see ignoramus pretending to be smart.

[Eucalyptus]

@ssll-sg So, you're saying that I don't have oocytes?

[ssll sg]

@Eucalyptus

if you have oocytes and sperm,then,you wont have fertilization and you wont have fertilized egg,blastocyst,fetus,etc2.

dont you even know this,boy?

[ssll sg]

@Eucalyptus

have you finished googling the difference between oocytes and ovum?

are you going to admit that you have no idea what youre talking about?

are you going to thank me for educating you?
its the least you could do,right,mboy??

[Eucalyptus]

@ssll-sg

I'll help you a bit with your English ;)

-owning a knife has the chance of you using it to stab others.when you own a knife, there is a possibility of you stabbing others so, DON'T BUY A KNIFE!!!!
-having a car means that you have there is a chance to you might hit another human with it ,so DON'T OWN A CAR!!!!!!!!
-eating food has a chance to make you fat When you eat foot, there is a chance you will get fat and sick ,so DON'T EAT FOOD!!!!!!!!!
your logic does not compute, BOY!
tTry again. tThis time, try to use your brain for once
-the mother decided to continue on the pregnancy on her own
-the father disagreed with the pregnancy and wanted to terminate it
are you saying that the mother is not responsible for her actions to choose to continue the pregnancy and gave birth to a child??????????
SHE wanted to continue the pregnancy, then SHE is the one responsible in raising to raise the kid.
you claimed that everyone shouldn't do anything that has the possible possibility to reach result in a bad outcome, didn't you?
don't use a knife because you might stab others?
the severity of the bad outcome of someone stabbing others with a knife is equal or more than unwanted pregnancy, no?
i KNEW youre were going to say this.

[Eucalyptus]

@ssll-sg No, because you totally missed my point. I said it correctly :blush:

[ssll sg]

@Eucalyptus

thanks for the corrections,boy!

now,why dont you thank me for educating your ignorant ass about how human body works?

you can do that,right,boy?

LOL!

[Eucalyptus]

@ssll-sg

Sorry, I was busy educating you....

hHave you finished googling the difference between oocytes and ovum?

aAre you going to admit that you have no idea what you're talking about?

aAre you going to thank me for educating you?
it's the least you could do, right mboy??

[Eucalyptus]

@ssll-sg Like I said, you missed my point. I said it correctly. ;)

[ssll sg]

@Eucalyptus

bwahahahahah!
is that all youre going to do,boy?
capital letter?
apostrophy?

well,im sure youre embarrassed about being WRONG about sperm and oocytes=pregnant,right,BOY?

LOL!

[Eucalyptus]

@ssll-sg That's not what I said, that's the conclusion you drew...

[ssll sg]

@Eucalyptus

awww....my poor little boy.

all you can say in your defense is

you: durrrrrr......thats not what i said.....durrrrrr.

anyone with 2 brain cells understood what youre trying to say,mboy!

now,thank me for educating you.
you can do that,right?

LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[ssll sg]

@Eucalyptus said in I need help..am pregnant and we broke up with the father of the baby:

Having semen and oocytes doesn't result in getting an unwanted pregnancy.. Having (unprotected) sex does..

now,lets dissect what you wrote here.

what are you trying to say here,BOY?

semen and oocytes doesnt result in getting unwanted pregnancy?of course!!!!!! oocytes are incapable of fertilization,so,its impossible for pregnancy to occur.

so,why did you write this illogical,nonsensical sentence,BOY?

you tried to project the illusion that youre smart by using medical terminology that you dont even understand,and you end up making a fool out of yourself.

arent you ashamed,boy???????

my advice?
be smart.
dont pretend to be smart.
you can do that,right,boy?

[Eucalyptus]

@ssll-sg

I said it correctly, because the point I was making was that having something doesn't result in a pregnancy. Just like having a knife doesn't result in a stabbing.
I might as well have said that having ovaries and testicles doesn't result in pregnancy, it's the same point, just phrased differently.
But I chose to say oocytes and semen.

I chose my words carefully, because I purposely didn't only refer to the fertile period.