Damn lisa-elizabeth will you be the "VITIMIN" girl for me 😆
And I do love chocolates too 😏
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@knownsense Some things are better left unsaid. :thinking:
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@Lazz aah life huh? Never gets any easier, we just get more resilient to it.
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@Lazz honestly I am little confused now !! Ok so you are glad that she is not hurt, about your good bye to her !! So what is the point that you are feeling sad that's the way she made you feel the way you feel now ??
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@knownsense Ah, I see the lack of clarity, now. Women are confusing. :thinking:
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@Lazz ok so what make you worry so much .. friend fine I guess even better .. I could say it's respect, towards them that you stayed with them, gave you all comfort and even loved you took care of now times is , are changes wasn't a match, so let go with peace and harmony, than hate and negativity I think !! Far future u never know so let be as it is ..
So you move on it's ok all in her head make sure to her that it's not in your head what's on her head .. prove it not thinking much and just update her as a friend about your life also most important about you new girlfriend ..so see after that what it will be, as my experience it's s clear message you are just s friend and need to move on -
@knownsense Yes. I think there is more clarity and understanding, now. Forgive me for not being as clear, earlier. :pray:
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@Lazz I am really glad that's it was help to you !!
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@knownsense To be honest, the whole thing confuses me to no end. But I'm going to just leave it go. Women can be as confusing as they are intoxicating. Some, and some of the time. :wink:
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@Lazz well you cant blame women for your own doing , that is you urself let go so far that's you asked yourself to make you feel this way for yourself, or asked to treat you this way now your are not able to accept it as it is I guess ??
And as I know plus with research, it's s man's world and man did rules and regulations to his benifits , and it's in all mythological books or relegious text, women consider crazy unbelieable avatar, for example medusa Kali,I think man didn't knew how to understand women still we don't but blaming is not a solution !!, I do agree they are total confused mess , if you ask a women do you like flower they say no ,but fact is they love it most !! So yeah -
@knownsense Ah, I see. I'm not laying blame, especially not on women, in general. Just my own opinion regarding this situation. Of course the confusion is my own.. :)
The rest will eventually sort itself
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@Lazz it's man genetic I guess ?? Been generation confused about women , still wondering with confusion and in search mode to find the Perfect sense to make about , what women need or what they are ??
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@knownsense On a recent trip I happened to find myself talking with an older gent, and he posited me the following:
Why are women so attractive? So us (men) will like them. And:
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@Lazz well said and make sense
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@Lazz I did mention to you earlier that's u r being soundimg board for yourself in this post, also you did solved your question.. but you had a hard time to put it in order to make sense of it to your mind .. I guess ??
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@knownsense Well, my mind does tend to whirl with thoughts. But as this all is still going on, some of the thoughts...change, as the situation changes. :grin:
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@Lazz if you noticed , all my sorrundings like to get involved with my past sad moments also invite them to my past story which is long gone , taking thier broken ideology and perspective to fix my past and even discussing about my past could have should have would have, forgetting now that's it's past and no use than let go ...
It's a unbreakable viscous cycle Wil be running around inside cycle .. untill you come out look as a tangent -
@knownsense Thoughts, like snakes biting their own tails.
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@Lazz however I do consider what you mentioned, ok I give you one example we are in our own bubble inside a massive bubble, tripping our balls or tits off or out of our skull !! just wonderful to the self but completely forgot that we are inside a bubble in out own life comfy cozy bubble .. it's like frog in a well , for sure you heard the phrase from folks or by Surroundings!!
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@knownsense I do agree.
