I'd like to tell anyone who is struggling to find a reason to carry on; Think of a memory. Think of a time in your life when you were truly happy, no matter how how big or small that moment was, dwell on it. Now think of a time in your life when things were worse than they are for you now, a time when you thought there was nary a chance to come through it in one piece. let it pass through your mind for a moment. Think back to people you have loved, who have loved you in return, regardless of where they are now, take a moment to analyze your triumphs and your failures. understand that no matter what happens in life, you have to keep the goodness from your past held strong in your heart, and carry that joy with you in the darkest of shadows, You need to look back on the events in your life that just about broke you in two, and draw strength from that. You are still here, You're still fighting, even if you don't want to, even if you feel like you cant. embrace that fighting spirit. and turn your pain into motivation, channel all that emotion into a fuel for your will. and keep in mind. there have been times in your life where you knew joy, and those days will return, especially if you FIGHT for them. life doesn't get easier. I wish I could say that it does, but that would be a lie. The difference lies with you. You get better at handling the hardship, and eventually, events that almost broke you will seem like no big deal, so long as you keep striving to do better. the last thing i'd like to say; You can only rely on yourself at the end of the day. Learn to love yourself, accept your flaws, and change the things that are in your power to change. You have to accept yourself for who you are, because you cant break up with, nor cut ties with yourself. you have to accept every mistake and shortcoming and love yourself unconditionally. on top of that, you most likely have people that love you, that need you in this world, and would never be the same without you. You can make it through this, even if you are at your lowest, for if that's the case, the only way to go is up.
I wanted to take a minute to explain myself and apologize
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@m-y-s-t-e-r-y yes
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@Littlelion12 muh vagina, like how long are women going to bitch about getting attention from men? Especially on online anonymous forums.
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@m-y-s-t-e-r-y I have one too though and I'm straight. She just wants a normal conversation from what I gather
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Well that's what happens when you put men and women together, the men hit on the women and the women choose their breeding partner. That's basically all life is.
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@m-y-s-t-e-r-y I see your point. You're saying it shouldn't come as a surprise the nature of these forums since men being obnoxious isn't new and of course they'd be more aggressive in an anonymous chat.
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@Lindsey I over readed it but i will read it when i find a lot more time later after working ! I will go on and replaying on your whole words you said and told and explained so good ! be sure i am not bored by your words and i just need time to take the things together you wrote down. I am hopeful to read from you again ! take care & stay healthy
greetings from Japan
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@Littlelion12 its like if i went to poor country dressed like richie mcdick waving around american dollars and dripping that thick saudi oil and drinking aqifani fugi water and all these poor people hound me and I act outraged at their behavior...
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@Lindsey hey Lindsey I'm completely failing to see.why you're apologising. You did absolutely nothing wrong. Please tell me you realise you've done nothing wrong. It's cringey the way a.lot of guys run around like a.dog with 2 dicks and it's their responsibility not yours. Having said that I'm really happy you've dècided to.stick around. I hope you now have a better experience on here but trust me, setting your stall out and being clear about what you do and don't want will not be a deterrent to a certain type of guy on here
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@m-y-s-t-e-r-y Ah I see you. Ggs
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@Div You know what's weird, I always assumed we can't receive random messages from people we dont add. I'm pretty new to this site so I think I know the basics but theres a ton of things idk about
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@Lindsey Now where i readed your post i can say i know and understand what are you talking about ! I am so sorry to hear it that so much peoples with just Sexualy interessts was writing you ~ On a place like this (also whole internet) you never can be sure if there are dick-wearing peoples who come and write you down with such messages. You never can be sure & and never will be save for such peoples but at least you can block them and close the messages of them... I am a guy myself and i never had the idea of presenting me like this!! badly i had a lot of such experiences myself with womans and i can say i don't trust anymore a bunch of you peoples are really okay and i think i can talk to you in a normaly way... if you ever need someone for an non-sexualy talk i am here and i followed you up! because humans like you became rare this days. exactly this is why i am careful about social media sites also i really like the internet and /listen reading up the cultures of other countrys and human beings. But i really ask myself if this individuals are human beings ? I am not sure about it anymore. Non-respect for a woman is something i can't tolerate since my own mother told me i should handle womans like flowers i do it with some respect.. womans are the reason why also we male's are alive and without them we would be nothing but crying babys on the ground.. ! so thank you for existing to all of you and mostly you for your courage to writing such a long text ... to explain your situation !
sorry for my bad english and i promise to read up more from you
greetings from the cold Osaka ~
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@F7k-B0y I completely understand what your saying.
The amount of real genuine people are hard to find
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@F7k-B0y All in all lovely Peoples and / normaly peoples are rare everywhere on the network it's hard to find this days peoples who just being here for a normaly convi and a normaly talk right there i feel like it's hard to trust on the internet but in the other way i think there are peoples thinking the same way as u do and thats why i am here ! i like bringing up the way of my mind and telling how i think about several things i think it don't play a matter if you are america, algerian, romanian or male or female the fact that u think in a good way makes u interessting for a good talk... :) feel free to follow me up my friend
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@Lindsey Lindsey, I feel for you for the negative attention you've had, here. As one of many who welcomed you, I was taken aback when I saw your post stating you were calling it quits, and the included reasons for making that decision. There ARE good people here, this I know to be true. There are friends to be made, and fun to be had. I understand that proportion-wise this was more than a "one bad apple spoils the bunch" scenario, for you, and understand why you wouldn't want to stay in that type of toxic environment. Then caught this recent post. I am glad a Mod reached out to you and offered some suggestions and such, in hopes of assisting you in having a better overall experience here. There's a lot of good here, in this community, and there's enough diversity to create an experience and environment that not only occupies your time, but allows you to explore and enjoy, and find fun, potential pals, and whatever else may suit you. And as unsavory as your experiences had been you are thoughtful enough to explain and even apologize? That shows your integrity, manners, and your character. It's more than probable that anyone who harassed you, was rude, or vulgar, or worse to you won't MAN UP and say they're sorry. Allow me to be one, of hopefully many, on behalf of this community, to offer you my sincerest apologies. With much respect, and admiration, best regards. Lazz
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@blue-eyes same way to you ! genious peoples are rare as heck
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@blue-eyes Yeah completely agree with you ... Just be yourself.
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@Lazz Lazz-san you have my whole respect for your words
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@Gemini_Beta I think that comment just upgraded you to Gemini_Alpha! Well said!
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@Lazz
So much virtue signalling in one post...