@Peek_A_Boom after u 😪
Lonely but married?
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Yeah, I was hoping to find some conversation here but like you said it’s a bunch of perverts for the most part. My husband and I got married too young. I was 20 but had never dated because I came from a very strict religious sect that didn’t allow casual dating. So within 2 weeks of dating (with chaperones) he kept hinting at marriage. I really did like him but wasnt really my type at all. I’m tall he’s short, I love to think and talk about deep things, he likes cars and trains and is resentful that I don’t care about his hobbies. I go to car shows and model railroad shows and I hate it. I want to cook a great meal, go for a walk or a bike ride, have a group game night, go to concerts and travel. But I gave up having a career, a family, and a life of my own when I married him. Anyway, married 24 yrs last week (after only 8 months of dating) and his idea of fun was driving me 2 hrs away to go test drive an old corvette. Of which we don’t even have the money to buy. He never plans anything for my birthday’s and doesn’t have a clue what I like or am interested in. I miss talking to someone who actually want to engage with me, who cares about what I think and feel. Who doesn’t think I’m just an overly emotional woman who just wants to complain. I mean I gave up everything to make this marriage last. But he does nothing. I hate my life but I love him and don’t know how to be anything else. Sorry just had to vent.
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@BoredomKills Appreciate the thoughts but it takes two and he doesn’t want to be bothered. It’s all about his happiness.
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Dont tell this here be mature and tell it to your hubby .. sympathy seeking is not gonno make you happy accept it
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@Zelda99 Don't be sorry, we all need to vent and rant, at times. You should see the rant I posted earlier, about how things have gotten so oversexed here these days. Honestly, I don't think my situation is quite like yours, but I still do feel for you. A suggestion: how about writing? You are great with words, and how to use them to paint quite clear mental images. Blogs, forums, anything. I think you'd do great getting your words OUT THERE. One thing about the internet, it opens a lot of doors, for someone who can use their words. Yours convey passion, disappointments, hopes, FEELINGS, and that's a powerful tool to wield. Pen may no longer be mightier than the sword, but your keyboard just might be. Just a thought. Best to you, always! ~Lazz
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@Zelda99 You have absolutely NOTHING to apologise for. Nobody has to listen if they don't want to, and I think most people would understand your frustration.
I genuinely feel for you and hope you find the connection/s you deserve very soon.
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@Matt_Aranha Well said, Matt. Good on ya! ~Lazz
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@Sybaritee Over 24 yrs you don’t think I’ve told him? It’s a constant source of arguments. But at some point you get sick of the fighting. And it’s always turned back on me.
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@Zelda99 Thanks right back, Zelda. I hope you will find some meaningful resolution to your home life, marriage, and all. Or at the very least, some peace
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You need a sweet girl friend i would say guy but that will be not good for uhr marriages i guess ✌🏼
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@Zelda99 I am so sorry and feel bad for you but if you want to talk I'm here
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@Zelda99 looks like you picked the wrong man but that's your problem 🤗
