Life is very hard. No matter how you try to be simple and fade in the dark it still finds ways to kick you down.
What are the first 3 things you do when your life falls apart ?:)
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@cjko it’s not that I don’t trust them to know how to solve problems I can’t everyone is suited for a certain type of battle(be it mental or real) rather I’m worried of causing problems of them to worry about me (as I know how stressful it can be to worry believe me I loves lifestyle of worry) though in reality if by what you say I’m a hero than we all kinda are heroes to anyone we’ve brightened their mood or even helped in any way possible
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@rabbitboy true indeed. I hope everyone will do small things like that. A tiny thing that affects that much. :)
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you see, we all know what needs to be done. bury what worry us and move on. but its not that simple is it? thats why we are having this discussion here. people deal with their problems their own way. some people deal with it quickly (nick named "mature" ones), some people take their time (nick named "immatures" or "energy vampires" or "negative people" or "yellow caps" or "sceptics" etc) and finally some that dont make it, those who end up in mental asylums and those who end up dead. The point is we all need people to love us, i mean thats the whole point. even if we are hungry or we are getting kicked out from the country we have lived on since birth we need to love and to be loved. but nobody wants to love the damaged ones, the bad eggs or the rotten apples. so we struggle, we struggle so damn hard to make ourselves presentable as the good ones. so that people could love us like we love them.
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@barton uhmm..yeah. Challenges and struggles are part of this test (we called Life), we learn from it. Imagine how monotonous our lives would be if everything is flawless. I mean, that's the standard cycle in our society. If we compare life to a dish , dish (life) would not be tasty or delicious without adding the condiments ( struggles, worries, happiness, rejections etc). It just a matter of balance and blending.. as a person, you should know how to balance or blend for you to get the exact or the preferred taste. :)
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@cjko In essence, take responsibility of my life, eh? hehe. Nicely done, cj. Are you a therapist? :)
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@barton therapist ? nope. hehe I'm just a young lady gone through a lot of blending and balancing in life. hahha
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@cjko i meant more of a Guidance Councelor. one of my friends who gave me a hard time in life is one. lol :P
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@barton haha really?well, life is always unfair.. remember that. But it is beautiful..isn't it ? :)
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@cjko Never compain. Never explain. Only then life is beautiful.
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@barton good.Sounds like you have a positive disposition in life now.. congrats! :)
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@cjko
1: I stress in an irrational way
2: I gain composure and evaluate what I need to do to untangle the debris that is left
3: I commence with the correcting/undoing of whatever mess is currently lying at my feet.an, tbh my life seems to falls apart quite a lot when you look at the whole picture... but I just hold my head up an march on :)
For me there doesn't seem to be much else I can do..... -
@mr_peanut keep going! :)
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- Isolate myself
- Overthink listening to sad songs
- Get over it
It's a a shame I get stuck in point .2 until this day :joy:
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@mr-h haha you'll get over with it. :)
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CUT MY WRIST
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DRINK UNTIL MORNING
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EAT COCONUT WORMS IN VINEGAR
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...Potato
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@liliputian1 are you well?
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@potatoespotatoes surely it should be 1. Peel ... 2. Slice ... 3. Cook ! ;)
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@potatoespotatoes hello there potato! :)
tired of hinding underground? ehehhe hello
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