Posts made by TheZeightGuy

@Pepsigurl Now that's a heartbreak which stays, a heartbreak you never wish happened. But the motto, not to be rude, is to move on. It sounds impossible, it even did to me, when I faced very similar circumstances. But with a little bit of heart, and some thought, you should be able to move forward!
It is very sad when such incidents happen, and it only feels very heartbreaking because you thought you heard the perfect click.
But if you still insist on doing something special, all I would say is, maybe just say hi? You shouldn't go head over heels, even though you feel like going so sometimes. It is really hard resisting the urge, but you got this in the bag if you use patience, and a bit of steel in your heart. :)

In these hard times, where all we do is sit, think, or do things for recreation, let's all be beacons of hope and positivity, because this and optimism are very loyal allies against the war on negativity and darkness.
How would you encourage positivity on platforms such as this?
Peace!!

@LiIyRose I don't exactly know what I am doing over here, and well, don't even bother guessing. Interesting advertisements, is all I gotta say :)

Can't stop guffawing.

@sarah_the_magpie A point well raised! Well, to many, the term is still vague and alienated, and I doubt if there are a lot of people who happen to take this seriously. Apart from the vogue of mental health and just the mere poster-plastering of helplines and therapy isn't always effective.
To me, it is a topic as serious as any. To some, it is just trash. :)

Seriously.

Apart from the certain deaths that He has ensured in the recent times, a surge in the mortality is majorly caused by anthropogenic and psychiatric factors. There have been too many deaths, and well, it's just sounding routine these days.
Mental health? A joke. Coronavirus? Well quarantine isn't helping much, is it? With people getting brain rot from just sitting in their houses, working upon monotonous schedules.
Is there a better way for managing yourself, and thus, saving your own soul from becoming more distressed by the rising negativity in the surroundings? What do you think??

Music can help you in times of deep distress, and that is an established medical/scientific fact.
Have you ever been saved by music? :)

Blood fuels life, and that is an established fact. Yet, we reverse the fact, i.e Life fuels blood. Why do we do so?

Could it be that all entities are utopian and the idealists, visionaries? The world being called a mirage and the masses as mere figurines?

@Iamyourgirl Endorphins, check. Dopamine, check. Feeling highest in the room, check. Being in love is an amzing feeling, and it affects you in ways you might not hae contemplated before. Scientifically, you become more sensitive, more receptive, more observant, etc. In summation, it is quite an experience in itself. :)

You might not have witnessed it in great detail, it being a usual incident- the tolling of the church bells for two very opposite reasons. Many smile when the bells toll in marriage and many remain sombre and gloomy when the bells ring in funeral. For the common layman, this is what life is all about. Living, eating, professing, and taking rest in the natural shelter shall He wills. For many, this is not routine, and the ideal is too utopian. Previously I had talked about the various challenges such classes of people face, and let it be made an established fact that they might have their own reasons and are bound with chains that resonate from cause to effect. We might not see it right away, but beyond those eyes, behind that fake grin, there is a hurt soul that needs a remedy.
Finding new people is not hard. All you need to do is drop a hello, and find platforms on which you can interact with those people. Make sure that the people are truly willing to talk to you, and be aware of any phishers or scammers online. There is a very simple test which you can use to test the authenticity of the person on the other end. Use subtle words, talk like a lady/gentleman and also use non-materialistic words, and a greater use of abstracts. It is surely going to be a handy sieve which can help you in noticing weird character behaviour, or maybe, even the true nature of that person. After you find a person, you move on to step two.
Step two is quite time taking but if done efficiently, can make you the happiest person in the room. Avoid trusting too much, and avoid instigating, scepticism, or talking about negative things. If you deviate from trusting the other person a little too much, you are then most likely to be mistaken for a person who likes spreading negativity, and it can have a bad influence over your own character. Complicated, right? That’s human psyche for you! Well, at least what has become of it in these days. Anyways, after you clicked with your friend, real or virtual, just make sure you don’t talk about your emotions in a very showy or a very frequent basis. If you feel a strong bias to let out, it is better to do it alone than in front of someone else. Screaming at walls is what many people use to seek relief but it is not as efficient as controllably talking with the other person. By control, I mean using very subtle words to ebb your feelings. Like a ship on smooth sea, that will get the other person to understand your situation better.
Make sure that you have established effective communication with your friend. This is key to maintaining any form of relationship, be it friendship, relationship or whatever. Trusting is a limiting factor, but maintain a justifiable amount, not an overwhelming one. You only get to trust someone else once! The second opportunities, or so they are called, are hollow. You only have one shot at making your impression, and in a way calm and amiable way, you can win other’s trust. Don’t go overboard by being too open, or this will leave you empty shall the person leave you. It is a mistake that I frequently commit, and it is a flaw within my deep self. Entities erased within a single day, with too much reliability on their shoulders. What a mess, honestly.
Anyways, make sure that the person is accepting, ready to listen, and there to help you shall you struggle to be normal. Remember this however, you are interacting with another human, so it is entirely possible that he or she might not be there all the time shall you need them. They might be dealing on something on their own. Shall in these lines of friendship or acquaintance, you find as little as a wrinkle or a breach in trust; walk away while you are still sane. It will amaze you to know how many people are out there in the world to break you.
If the other person is not there for you when you feel really low, abstain from extremities, and use methods like meditation and Spotify playlists to help you.
In this way, you establish that you want to take care of yourself better by giving first aid, and just waiting until help arrived. Don’t blurt, speak. And you will have your problems sorted in no time.

@Indrid-Cold In perfect agreement. Sessions, therapy and helplines are the poster face of depression and suicide these days. Are they effective? I really don't know, I didn't ever have a reason to opt for either. But I am pretty sure that if people are willing to change, to listen, and to support others better, we would be seeing less deaths and more blossoming and productive lives. And this applies to all age groups.
Indeed it falls as an obvious realization that it the duty is bestowed unsto humanity, to make sure that it doesn't get strangled by its own menacing and untrustworthy hands. We have to make the change. And this, before its too late to change anything.

@Dunderglub Thanks Esc. Appreciated your honest reply. It's a part of a book I am writing :)

Seldom have we come across cases which justify people enacting on behalf of their psyche and their routine bias. Acknowledgeable should be made, the fact that the modern society is a formulated expression of greater intelligence, and lesser emotions, which implies not exactly redundant, but extremely low levels of alertness to the so called faction of ‘mental health’. Let it be known the easy way that it is as important as harbouring aesthetic bodily features, but holds a far greater significance than one can imagine.
Many people are the victims of clinical depression, or just induced melancholy and lows. A lot of people are not willing to be diagnosed by the docs, because well, they would be deemed as insane and unfit by the prestige-withholding modern society. It’s shameful to realize that the cases of homicides and suicides are on the rise again, and on a worldwide basis. People are either too broken, or too ashamed to come forward, and it should be made known to the public that people aren’t exactly always extroverted, and many have superficial smiles beneath which lurk dark and hollow personalities and thoughts. An unhealthy mind is holding many captive, and the thought of acquiring one doesn’t seem to bother folks anymore. Missed opportunities of interacting with such people are what that many in the profession of helping as Samaritans, aren’t taking seriously. And if the world doesn’t realize it sooner or later, depression is as dangerous a pandemic as the Chimera.
For those who find this terminology to be novel, depression is a state of unrest which causes you to feel low, makes you want to be inexistent, and defines you as a liability. It should be made clear that it is not an incurable disease. It is not pathogenic, and but it has causes, diagnosis, medication and it’s very own incubation period. It is not associated with sudden onset, and the symptoms may be not very apparent as one might expect them to be. Blaming the depressed is always irrational, and helping the depressed is a virtue which defines you as a human and a true friend, or a Samaritan. Being the headlight for the cars on lost roads is what you should always embrace, shall you anytime get the opportunity.
Nowadays, the situation is extraordinary and the circumstances are beyond natural. They are insanely twisted, and so the human psyche has also taken a turn for the bad. Surely there are happy people in the world, but challengingly, most of the people, urban or rural, find themselves in mental unrest. The cases are surging, and people are giving up fast. Is this real? Indeed, you’d find this hard to believe. But we also have to modify and acclimatise to adapt to our mutated environment better by avoiding those who are sulphur, and listening those who are sweet and positive. This may seem superficial, but it is almost all the times authentic. There are always people to help; there are always people to listen.
Make it known, to all those who find themselves in unrest- A dynamic nature is all you need to be moving in life. A static lifestyle will just end with mostly bad results. You only need to be silent when absolutely demanded.
It’s okay to be not okay. And it is certainly better to find someone to talk to. It helps a lot, and I can account for the effects it has. Absolute trust and sharing personal strong bias is always not recommended, but if you think you strike a chord with your listener, you know you have a supportive friend.

Stand up, speak out. You can pull through this. We all are. I am. The world is a better place without this malignant parasite.

@kit_kat Bahahahahaha

Backstabbing. Heard of it? Ever felt it? Do you have anyone to blame?
PS: Please be respectful in the comments lol

Some people have some names, some have a list, some have a memory so faint that they fail to recognise the impacts others have had on their lives.
Have you ever had some person in your life who has changed your life for the better?

I CAME IN LIKE A WRECKIN BALLLL....
well, maybe not exactly like a wreckin ball. Anyways, back with a bang. Say hello to the all new Dude. :) :)

Goodbye, guys!