Controversial posts made by Luv2Lik

@chillax
I know it doesnt show but I'm religously irreligous .... :D

@vahid-0
you dont know, any more than anyone else knows ....
its allllllll stuff and nonsense, invented, dreamt up, and spat out to those who were daft enough to regurgitate it towards more daft people .....
accept it and enjoy your limited time alive .... NOBODY KNOWS

I recently took the 19 yr old daughter of a lady friend of mine shopping and bought her her first toy. Saw her for about a minute this morning and she came over and said she will remember me forever. It's a beautiful gift to buy someone.

@it-sharish
does mutual respect include telling females to dress in a certain way, or be worth half of a man .... that's disrespect .... and many women are far superior to many men .... and teachings in schools ??? I doubt if any uk schools teach that Islam is a religion of hate

Please Ladies, Cut the Labels off your thongs ... they are so unappealing ... Thanks

most annoying things girls do every day of their lives is criticise guy - as if they are so perfect eh ....

a lot of depressions comes from simply NOT knowing how to live "successfully". WE are constantly compared by people to the lives of other people and we can't be "other people". In time we do it to ourselves too. We miss out discovering what we can do, and fixate on what we cannot do. I remember going to ballroom dancing lessons with my ex-wife and having her sighing and moaning about how hopeless I was at it, then we divorced, and I met another lady. This lady knew how to follow her male dancing partner and we made a great team. When one of us made a mistake we laughed and carried on. We enjoyed our dancing. My ex-wife couldnt enjoy her dancing because she was a bully, she had no idea how to follow her dancing partner, she constantly pulled him off balance so he didnt show her up, and she kept him controlled with her sighing and moaning. Families do this to us too. They frequently compare us to other family members having expectations of us and for us which are illogical. Let people go. Be there to support them in which ever direction they have leanings towards.

The biggest controller in my life has been guilt. Guilt ladled on to me in layers by the people who raised me. Guilt for not being like other people. Guilt for being different. ( that was a big one, dished out like a sacks of wet sand stacked on my shoulders - and then laughed at for failing in my attempts to carry it all and failing to succeed in the manner that they recognised as success). Idiots.

Rejection came next. Phew, thats a heavy one for a child to work thru. A social worker described me as an "alien child" because I was the child who no one wanted, the child who was different, the child who spent lots of time on its own so it would not have to suffer the insults, the humiliation, the being laughed at, and the huge sense of not belonging anywhere. Those disgusting people knew no different, they were trained by their parents to behave like that, with a mantra that said what happens indoors stays indoors - that way, of course, they cant be corrected and proved to be wrong in their behavour.

I still repeat what I say about depression is unexpressed anger. And much of that anger is being angry at not being allowed to express ourselves without condemnation or criticsm. Learning assertiveness is tough, but most people can be taught. Sometimes we can redress the balance of power with words, words that can cut someone down so they instantly learn a new respect for us, and this too we can learn.

And there is much truth in that saying, if at first you dont succeed, try, try, try, again,
Frequently, its anothejr person, or persons, who need to change.

This is soooooo ridiculous .... NOBODY has any idea how this planet, universe, etc., came into being .... and the god idea was simply invented by ignorant people who wanted and answer ....
NO LOVE on this planet, if there was the creatures wouldnt kill and eat each other, would they ....wake fgs, all religion is manmade and invented to control us .... get it out of ya life

@naveen067
Great Quote .... but,
someone who cant sail won't have a clue what you are talking about ..... adjust your sails incorrectly and you'll be heading for a capsize

@muslim
islam was based on violence and lies and corruption and subjugation ....
and it still is

@miss-e
Hilarious ... another deluded headcase

The man's an idiot.
For cheating.
And more importantly, for telling you he cheated.
Get him out of your life fast.
He has no idea about a lady's feelings.
He has no idea of committment to someone else.
I'm sorry to be so blunt, but, the pain you feel is not for him,
it's for your expectations in your future life which is now ripped apart.
If you stick with this guy you will always doubt him and doubt yourself,
And understand, there is no such thing as forgiveness, all it is you, yourself,
accepting something has happened and finding the strength and attitude
to carry on living.
Don.t live your life being controlled by the pain inflicted by a loser, kick the
idiot into touch and use your energy to make a positive life for you.

What a beautiful sight.
I was in town and this young mum came towards me with her youngster in a pushchair, her breasts gently moving under her cotton dress because she had chosen to not wear a bra, and when she passed it was obvious she was wearing thong. What nectar for the eyes and mind.
I should have thanked her.

can she trust you after what youve done ????

you are both entitled to password your gadgets, and some will say you are both daft not to.
ask her if her trust in you has change cos you can no longer have access to her phone. she may offer you the password. Or she may say you're crowding her.
you could password your own phone and see how long it takes for her to comment.
Maybe you just need to realise you aren't the papacita you thought you were.

I lost my muslim chat friend, she married and says we mustnt chat any more ....:disappointed: .... it's all very sad ... we chatted about everything and anything, shared online videos together, yes, even adult stuff, and lots of humour, I loved hearing her laugh on cam.... and we promised one day we would meet in person and find somewhere to secretly hug ..... I wish I knew how to find a replacement but we met by chance in a chatroom and I was the only person who took an interest in her and her situation and that was almost 10 years ago - I need to find a site where I can put an advert for another lady like her .....:grinning: :grinning: :grinning: .... be happy my lovely friend and if you need to talk you know where to find me .......

@xxawakening22
""" christianity is real .....""""
real what ???
stuff and nonsense ???
Like ALL religions ..... wake up, go do some serious research ......

@olivia_k
YOU won't want to take the advice you are given because you think love him.
As a former counsellor who married a violent woman you can be comfortably assured that there is only one person who can change in this rerlationship, and that is you. You can continue being a victim to this guy and gradually become his punch bag, both emotionally and physically, OR, you can learn to be assertive, even if that means finding someone else to help you, and get this disgusting coward out of your life.
You never know, one of you two might end up on the coroners slab.

@ส
Is what new to me ?

@nitin24
If I was a ghost I'd only spook if I was spooken to .....

@cheesecake-lesb
Why ???