Posts made by Johnnyy

@rose-love I confess my happiness. I'm enjoying this new day!

Aussie Aussie Aussie, oi oi oi 😁

Don't worry if it doesn't make sense to you. Just say hi if you like 😅

@ᴤϙᴜɪᴤʜʏɴᴇᴏɴ fav meme atm https://imgur.com/a/kQagBSw

@Pia since there is no wrong doing in being ordinary, I don't think anyone should feel guilty for it.

But perhaps in your friend's mind an ordinary life means a dull and dreary existence. If so then it is understandable that some negative feelings would be attached to that. Not guilt but perhaps a feeling of dissatisfaction

Dissatisfied feelings could be useful to prompt you to desire change and even make changes that result in a more fulfilling lifestyle.

I hope this makes sense to you.

@Itz_me_betty congratulations Betty! 😁

@Izzieen-Lay I'm confused reading your description.

@YourFriendYaweh me too, because covid has made the gyms here so restrictive I have bought weights and am working out at home. And I've taken up interval sprinting in the park.

I was previously a gym guy but I don't think it's necessary for me now. Plus, packing a gym bag, driving there, getting changed and finding the equipment that I want to use.Its just a barrier. I can get stuff done without wasting half an hour of my day.

@Whatever77 I have been in a place where I felt like I needed to please people to keep them happy or feel right within myself. It was actually toxic for me and the built up feelings of angst were burning me out. It took a long time to realise that it's a futile endeavour.

There is a problem with that environment. People shouldn't expect us to bend to their whim all time but equally if we allow it by not trying be our authentic self then people will generally not try to help us change. The answer for me was in my self talk. I had to change the way I see myself and not be threatened by other people.

I don't know if your situation is similar or not. But I do know that emotionally you can't go through life trying to please other people without paying the price in your own mental or emotional stability 😁

Edit: And props to you for talking about it openly. That's a great step towards dealing with a problem 👍

@Andre-Ford definitely better than what I could do 👍

@Itz_me_betty it's not bad, it's good. I like the style of all your art.

@Itz_me_betty hey Betty. I have no problem with you. I think you're a lovely girl and I like your drawings. Truly I do. Chin up my friend. You've got me in your corner 😗

@Sassy only if you're coming to my house 😏

@Pia thank you, I had a blast. Just got home

@Sassy haha, damn covid fucked you, not me 😂

I'm going to a dance party today on the beachfront today. Gonna be awesome!

@Sassy I don't have a one thing. I've achieved most of my goals. I think I'm happy just to maintain my health and fitness after having turned it around with lots of hard work.

I ended up in hospital with severe migraines a few years back because I was not looking after myself properly.

One other thing I'd like to do is travel all over the world. I have it all planned out roughly and have the money saved. I just need all the countries to open up again.

@Kate-casey hi Kate, you can talk to me. Unless you're asleep 🤭

@Pia yes, I think many people might agree that they do the same, including myself. Once again, good job Pia 👍

@Pia I like that I am usually diligent with what I need to achieve. I like finishing tasks and getting stuff done. Sometimes I'm a bit slow to get started, just for balance 😂 Thx for the question Pia, it was a good one!

@glittergoddess you did good. I can tell you're not a negative person. Keep up the good work 👍