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First thank you so much for reading this big message and replying in much detail. Yes, Ur right. I'll tell him what I've told here and talk to him more. I guess I'm like this because we don't get to meet much and I feel jealous of the other girls(his friends) who get to see him everyday. Even seeing a random couple together makes me feel jealous. I am a lonely person who only is very close to my boyfriend and mother (any kind of help I would always reach out to them) but in this one I felt like I couldn't talk to neither of them. I was looking for psychology help online but ended here. Ur right. When people are cheating in relationships, I've got the most loyal person to be mine. I'll try my best to change my attitude and start expressing my love for him more. Just like you said, I wouldnt like a girl's man scolding her for her skirt and the way she dresses. Wow. You've helped me understand that well. Thanks for helping me out and I'll try my best with determination to change myself and be good to him. Thanks a lot really. (And, I love your English. It's so nice to read :) )

I'm a 20 year old girl in relationship with a boy of my age for 2.5 years. It's a long distance relationship. We meet like 3-4 months once like for one day meeting. We also get intimate (no sex) but oral and things. He's the sweetest person one could ever see and I just love him a lot. He loves me too. But I have one bad habit of always shouting and getting mad on him for very trivial and small reasons. I get mad if he talks to another girl, or if he doesn't talk / chat with me for a long time(like 4-5 hours he watches movies/studying and doesn't message me), if he wears shorts and post pictures in it( I don't like him showing off his legs to others only I should see it), if he doesn't listen to me, if he doesn't sexchat when I need it. And other stupid reasons. He's the most open boyfriend and he tells me everything. He's the most loyal. We are in relationship for 2.5 years. Starting time, I used to be so kind and lovely to him. But nowadays I get angry for stupid stuff. I feel I'm torturing him too much. We fight now almost every other day. Though I quarrel with him for these things he never gets angry back to me. I ve tried so many times to change my attitude and behaviour to him. But this bad attitude keeps on taking over me. I really feel bad for him for being in a toxic relationship with me. I'm so madly addicted to him that I cant concentrate on my studies too if I get mad on him. Please don't tell me to break up. I can never lose a guy like him. Please give advice on how to change my mindset and give him some space and keep him happy. Pls help :(

@Scottish Thank u so much for reading and replying to me. Just like u said I'd talk to him and tell him what I feel. Thanks a lot.

@peachpie Yes, I would hear him too. That's a correct one. Thank you so much. I would take all your words and talk to him and be a happier person soon. (I hope)

I can. I too was looking for this

@Matt_Aranha thank you so much. You saw my other post?

@Matt_Aranha Yeah. You've been of really great help. First u made me feel that I wasn't so bad and appreciated me. I would soon talk to him and be happy with him.