@falcontarious I expect nothing from anyone at the beginning of a relationship. Well maybe honesty and trust. That way you can get an idea of the person you are with. If they give that then cool. It's when you give it back that you end up in murky waters because you give yourself to someone expecting the same as it was in the beginning. I understand people change but if they do then the honesty you expect should still be there. The problem is that people are afraid of that honesty because they do care up to a point and don't want to hurt you. It actually makes it worse because as they are drifting you have no idea because you are still in the love bubble. The truth and honesty you come to expect from them should still apply but it doesn't and you end up hurt and confused from thinking that it was something you did and wondering what it was you did wrong. If you're gonna end a relationship because the love is no longer there then be truthful about it. Completely went off on a tangent from the original question I've just realised. Rant over.
Looking for someone to give some good advice
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Need some relationship advice
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@ktrix What's the problem ..?
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@n-soft I have anxiety, and my boyfriend doesnt know how to cope with it, he gets frustrated with me when i get anxious, and beats himself up when he feels he cant help me with my panic attacks. I dont know what to do about it
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@ktrix So not relationship Problem .. but the anxiety Problem ....
What's your age ??
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@ktrix said in Looking for someone to give some good advice:
@n-soft I have anxiety, and my boyfriend doesnt know how to cope with it, he gets frustrated with me when i get anxious, and beats himself up when he feels he cant help me with my panic attacks. I dont know what to do about it
Like... literally physically punches himself. Or just blames himself
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I’m just a nerd, soooo.. yeah. Can’t help with that.
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@ktrix Don't force things, cuz it will go to shit. Especially if you 2 are not quite compatible.
