Communication Issues

[fadedwarmth]

I’ve been having a lot of trouble communicating effectively with a super close friend of mine and I’m at a loss of what to do.

We’re both autistic and have trouble understanding and wording things how we want to and they keep saying I’m being guilt triply and rude but I’m honestly trying not to

I had unintentionally hurt their feelings by messing with role perms In an in game group and immediately did what I could to correct it, but when I checked things, they had done the same exact thing to me and I’m so confused why they got mad when I tried to express that they hurt me doing that like how I hurt them