@Bunnyrabbit
Oh my goshhhhh that is so cool, congrats on that. I'm so happy for you guys. Yup its different in every person, some might say that seven years is long and some might say its not and some might say four years is long and some might say not.
Bunnyrabbit. Just always remember that life is not a race, 100 percent real. Life is all about experience and enjoying your own flow.
I like that you both talk about it. And yup, some people might think they are selfish when it comes to thinking about that, but reassure that you are not selfish and that is normal, especially if you have someone you wanna spend your whole life with until you both die of old age.
Just follow the plan that you both already have, you two are things that both already have for each other side.
Oh yeah, some advice that I like to share about housing, since it really do make sense. buy a old house not a new and furnish ones since its to expensive. It can save you guys a lot of money and together with your partner, little by little build the house of your dreams ^-^