Is it better to ask someone out and to maybe get horribly rejected or never ask them in the first place


  • I don't exactly fall in love easily, but when I do, I fall hard. I never want to make a move and get to nervous to talk to the people I like, so would you take the chance to just ask them out or watch as they move away from you.


  • Ask. If they reject you horribly, they aren't somebody you want in your life anyway. If they don't want to go out with you but are more positive/adult about it, you've both learned and grown. If you don't ask, you'll deny yourself growth as well as wish you had.


  • proceed with caution either way but if you really like them, the one that always scares me is ...."you miss 100% of the shots you don't take" , so if you really want her, you cant blame yourself after for it"