I can deal with planing and doing deadlines real quick, like, super quick, and of coz the result’s quality can only be so-so. However the better i get with this skill the more stagnant and lazy i become in my free time
Advice on social skills
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Your welcome dude on TWS you either a hater or fan imma fan your posts are funny asf lol.
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@Al_Fredo hmm thanks
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@martin488 Lol !! Atleast try it once and then tell me if it doesn't works...why do u need anyone else's attention..social skills r important but do not give anyone more importance than urself charles(b99)..lol
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@happymiss you misunderstood, I never said about attention, I mean as a social being literally every human is dependent on others, we can try to minimise the dependence but we cannot end it, we are evolved like that, got deviated, I just meant it would be better to have social skills, learning them is kind of self uprgadation I guess.
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@D1Vine hmm thanks
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So , for starters, (imo), it depends on why do you intend to have a conversation, most of the times, conversations have a end goal or a point to reach at. For example, I initiated this conversation with you, to understand what part of the social skill set you WANT to learn
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@SquishyPoTATo I don't understand that part myself, I guess the basis of us humans socialising is that we are able to rely on others when needed help, so I guess you can say I need backup for myself when I need help (here by help I meant technical help, and not emotional/mental)
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@martin488 u can rely on me whenever u want ...... i'll never be ur backup
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@happymiss Just what I expected from you thanks for not letting me down but at the same time letting me down lol
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@martin488 Yup that sense of community is what's essential to survival. So going back to your original question, something specific on your mind that you wish to investigate?
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@SquishyPoTATo umm I don't understand what you said
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@martin488 I was referring to your statement about human beings needing to socialize when they require help - Its a trait required to survive as a species since when we wore nothing but animal hide.
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@SquishyPoTATo yeah, I mean I might need help in future, not just me everyone will, its kind of impractical that in your whole life you are able to be independent, I mean to some degree you can be independent but sometimes choosing not to be independent and letting it go is better for you as well as others, and I currently see myself to be some kind of "screw that I'll do it all by myself" guy
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@martin488 To be social you need to learn how to expand your comfort zone,slowly..If you feel like talking then speak out, if not then be in silence coz nothing is wrong with it.. Hopefully this goes well for you.
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@Bela-Hella Ikr, I've been trying this, thanks for suggestion