how much is too much regarding age gaps in relationships?
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I kind of like this guy that’s almost 10 years older than me but does he just see me as a kid?
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@abw422 with out knowing all the details its hard to make a judgement but I will say this. If he sees you as a "kid" then, they are most likely a pedo and you need to get out of it. If anyone sees you as a child in a relationship its not healthy no matter how large or small the age gap is.
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@Heathertg If I got that vibe I would’ve moped right tf outta there 😅 it’s more like, I don’t wanna look stupid and put myself out there if he’s just gonna think I’m immature bc of my age or something. I get this isn’t the best place to ask about this but I’m dont want to ask my friends or anyone I personally know bc of the whole age thing
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I have dated with age gap before and all i have to say to that is, what ever you are ok with in the end is what matters. Relationships are not easy and hell me being trans makes them even harder but just take things one step at a time
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@Heathertg thank you!
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Age is fairly low on the list.. unless it breaks any laws. But more importantly, how’s your connection? Let him see you and you’ll know soon enough if he also thinks there’s something between you that draws you to each other. Good luck.
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age to me is not that big a deal i "dated" a 14? yr old when i was 20 and when i was 16 i had a fling with a 35? yr old woman. age didnt bother me because it wasnt all sex on my mind. i will chat with anyone and have a friendship with anyone. pedos only come into play when you dont care about friendship. it is ONLY sex. i dont look at young girls as fuck toys. but i can have no issue hanging out with one simply because i relate more to their world than i do mine. i almost feel like a mentor and i try my best to help them lead a good life if they are not at the time. but just stop it with this damn pedo shit. not every guy who dates a younger girl wants her ass. he might actually feel more comfortable with her surroundings, like music and so on. pedos want SEX/POWER/CONTROL/ETC . i could nto be like that even if i wanted to be. dont have it in me. but i have always beleived a older guy and young girl can still work with 2 things in place. you MUST have at LEAST 1 THING IN COMMON and you MUST SET UP BOUNDARIES AHEAD OF TIME. age is a society thing. just my take
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I have just come out of a series relationship with an older man. He loved me with all his heart and even proposed me. It was then I felt like I don't know What I truly feel about him. I loved him but about marrying I wasn't sure. I knew I had to stop before my family and dad to marry him and I wasn't sure how much It costs for me. We were perfect with eachother but I had one problem. And this happens with older guys all time. I was interested in some stuff because of my age that he wasn't. He looked more seriously in stuff and didn't get excited about things I would. Like I loved to just go to an amusement park!!!! While he felt It's boring and no fun. I had the best time with him and there's still chance we get back together.
My suggestion is giving chance to older ones. Age is not a very big deal.
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@abw422 tbh depends of where you live and the situation
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If its a 30 year age gap because I've seen couples marriage with 10-20 years however it becomes labeled as weird when comes to 30 years
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Anything below 40 years is fine, I love older men.
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@Ashley546 but how old are you ? cause if you are 25 or 13 it changes haha
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im 15 lol
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@Ashley546 oh damn, pretty open minded
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good thing or bad thing?
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@Ashley546 well you do you, i find it pretty nice tho
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ty! also thank you so much for the follow
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@Ashley546 kek why you gotta do this to me, but welcome
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A decent way to find out is half your current age and add 7
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Older men are amazing and I’m 21 Female
