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Why I reject so many on here...
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@j-lynn Oh haha, sorry, often I don't understand. I said it just in case you really asked me! Thanks for understanding : )
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@Feldoh
it's always a good idea to call out rude & pervy people. i do have to agree with @Matt_Aranha tho, it's not really a wise idea to give these kinds of people tips on how to be more successful at messaging girls. it's better not to waste your time on them, just block & ignore :D -
@sarah_the_magpie I think its a great idea, instead of ignoring the pervy guys I think we should try to understand them and help them to become better people. I think that is called tolerance. At least I believe we should be tolerant to these guys.
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@sarah_the_magpie Thank you Sarah, appreciated as always 👍
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@Feldoh
uh.. tolerant? i mean yeah, i'm definitely not going to try to stop you from doing what you want to do, but just remember to be careful :) -
@sarah_the_magpie Thanks for understanding. I really hate when people get judged. I like to say no villain sees themselves as the villain. People need to see from the point of view of the villain sometimes. Even the most pervy douchebag has a reason for being this way. Maybe he has a social problem? Maybe he doesn't know better? That is why we should be tolerant towards even the lowest and darkest.
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@Feldoh said in Why I reject so many on here...:
@sarah_the_magpie I think its a great idea, instead of ignoring the pervy guys I think we should try to understand them and help them to become better people. I think that is called tolerance. At least I believe we should be tolerant to these guys.
I have to disagree. Tolerance is by definition putting up with unacceptable or bothersome things. The kinds of guys who are firing "M or F" at every new first contact they make are almost invariably disposed to harassment when they meet a girl/woman who does not want to play their game. Both as a small online community and as a wider society we cannot allow that. It just isn't a polite way of introducing yourself; I always say if you wouldn't speak to somebody that way face to face in the street, don't do it online. That is especially true for introductions.
I am all for a positive change of attitudes and would actively encourage that, but when you start telling these people how to have more successful interactions with their targets you are not rehabilitating them - you become an accessory/enabler.
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@Matt_Aranha These type of guys don't really do any damage to our society. If these people would have more successful interactions they would discover how to behave better. The reason they behave this way is BECAUSE they don't know how to interact with a girl otherwise. It doesn't mean I am going to put up with it myself, I think that understanding these guys is essential.
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@Feldoh These are wise words. Just, please be careful. That is all I hope for.
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@Matt_Aranha Thank you for the good discussion, I will be careful!
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@Feldoh I appreciate your intentions; I sincerely wish you luck and hope good comes of it.
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Don't worry I do the same thing
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But nice profile... 🤣🤔
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@MysteriousBibi Thanks :)
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@Feldoh Yeah uh huh 🤔
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U are so beautiful. How do u take such perfect pics? Show me how!!@Feldoh
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@Cierra-Warnock It's not really the topic but, I paid a photographer and he helped me after a lot of photos to find the perfect pose. To this day I asked myself why would I pose this way, it's not really suiting my personality, but I guess I just like it. I think your photo is as good or even better!
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@TagC Lol I think so
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Why do you have to use a fake picture for your pfp... Don't be afraid to show yourself 😊
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@MysteriousBibi Why would you say it's fake?