What's poppin dude. You good??
If two people are liking each other or so called special but not in a relationship is it a pre requisite that you have to be open,honest and loyal??
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@bela-hella it doesnt have to be. depends on the people imo. some people have trust issues and expect you to submit daily reports on everything happening in your life. its just their insecurity.
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@barton so u mean to say that even two special people must not develop a daily dose of convos ? And its not good to deal or submit daily happening coz it is a form of insecurities??
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@bela-hella i said it depends on the people. some people expect you to ask about their day, and what happened. while it is good and healthy, some immature ones gets all riled up and doubtful because they have certain expectations from the opposite person. when thats not matched problems start. its all about expectations.
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@bela-hella ok ka lang ba talaga? who is this person? I think it is a pre requisite since na feel nyo sa isat isa na special kayo pero sa aking opinion lang yun. poof!
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@bela-hella if thats what you two prefer two then it is ok, you can talk about whatever you want for how long you want. as long as it doesnt come up as a thing you are forced to do.
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If 2 ppl like each other, why wouldn't you be open, honest and loyal in the 1st place? Ppl don't need labels to make it work, just feelings. Just cuz 2 ppl aren't in a relationship, doesn't mean they can't like/love each other. But usually, when you are into someone, you wanna spend some time with them (at least a few msgs everyday) and will want and feel the need to be open and honest.
What could you possibly hide from them in the 1st place? Another girl/boy would only mean u never really liked the 1st person. -
@mr-h well the question is about two close people mot in a relationship, eh? if a person doesnt want to share, why would someone insist on invading into their privacy?
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Topic says "if two people are liking each other" I assume we are talking about a romantical like.
If that is the case and if you can't be open with the person with who you like, with whom will you be open? -
@mr-h if two people are liking each other and "not in a relationship." my arguments were based on that.
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@mr-h I agree labels are not in need and kinda overrated( sometimes) and liking is feelings..In addition too open,loyal and honesty you also count contentment is also needed..
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In a relationship or not in a relationship, my point still stands. There's no reason to not be open, loyal and honest with them if you have feelings for them. How much you talk to them is one's choice, some are the clingy type and wanna talk all the time and others prefer to be less clingy and talk whenever something is needed or you are missing the other person.
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@mr-h thats why i said that it depends on people. some people prefer to be open. some dont. ultimately its their choice. there is no point in forcing one to respect your preference.
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@rosestar yep rose I Am totally okay..I am not the person involved in here actually no one just this random stuff you know..
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Just don't understand how you (generally speaking) can like someone and not be open with them. That's all i'm trying to say :sweat_smile:
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@mr-h yep I understand coz if someone likes you he/she must be aware that you must be the apple of the eye lol..and atleast the very 1st priority for communication purposes..
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@mr-h open, honest and loyal. these are powerful words mate. you say something personal to them and when things go south they use it against you. and i hate the drama which comes after a delayed sms response or failure to take calls in time. are you avoiding me, do you hate me, oh please!
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Exacly! :clap:
I get what you mean and I respect it. I, on the other hand, rather try with everything I got even If i end up hurt. At least I know I've tried my best to make it work. There's no "in betweens" with me.
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@mr-h I understand. But remember, by "trying everything" to make it work, you are shifting the responsibility to that person. Thats a lot of stress mate.
@Bela-Hella Haha, apple of the eye, first priority, thats just childish. mature people should always give each other the space to breath.