Which one do you prefer dating for marriage or for fun ?

[wildwallflower]

@cjko I wouldnt date for fun, never have. But marriage is a big deal, you dont feel like marrying every other person u date, ive told at home about only one ex of mine and yet we ended up breakin off.

[cjko]

@mr-h ok
Well, it is really up to you

[cjko]

@wildwallflower hahah I see your point. That's why, get to know first the person.. have some background check or do things like a spy do HAHHAA something like that ..before you go date with that person

[wildwallflower]

@cjko Its not always about that...People change, and parting ways is the best thing to do bcz holding on would do more damage, on both sides.
And even if u do ask other ppl and do a background check it doesnt help bcz ppl are different with their friends, something else with their family and something else entirely with their partners, I've seen that.

[cjko]

@wildwallflower well, yeah true. I didn't say have a background check and reject.. it is just a little help for you to go with his flow.

[DayShifter]

@wildwallflower said in Which one do you prefer dating for marriage or for fun ?:

@cjko Its not always about that...People change, and parting ways is the best thing to do bcz holding on would do more damage, on both sides.
And even if u do ask other ppl and do a background check it doesnt help bcz ppl are different with their friends, something else with their family and something else entirely with their partners, I've seen that.

Those ms, are very true sentiments that’s for sure. It makes you wander why people have to ‘keep up apperances’ with different parts of their lives. I mean I get the family thing, but others .. hmmmmm

[wildwallflower]

@cjko I know what u mean, i'm sayin this bcz ive done this, it hasnt helped me really. There was one guy about whom ppl used to say good things but he was a pure evil! and then this one person about whom his closed ones said he's not good at relationships but turned out to be the best one so far.
You gotta find out urself, experience that person thru your own perspective.

[cjko]

@wildwallflower true

[SᴛƦᴀɴɢᴇƦ]

@cjko
I don’t mean to sound rude, arrogant, uptight or any other synonyms for a jerk but i will be as bluntly honest and straightforward as I am.

Being born in an gud family environment i would prefer dating a girl for marriage obviously because she will have the same type of upbringing as me which will be easy to cope with. .

I don’t mean to offend anyone this is just a trait of my straightforward personalit

[cjko]

@sᴛʀᴀɴɢᴇʀ hmm well, yeah that's true.. and that is good for you too

[SᴛƦᴀɴɢᴇƦ]

@cjko I mean a girl who can plan her career and have an identity of her own and not have the 'housewife' mentality but still know the value of having atleast one meal together with family!

[Buddy Cupid]

I would rather for marriage at this point

[Buddy Cupid]

I would rather for marriage at this point

[SᴛƦᴀɴɢᴇƦ]

@cjko no @WildFlower123 not true

[Kushal Neupane]

@cjko i am a simple man, i see fun i prefer it

[cjko]

@buddy-cupid that would be great, if it's true.

[cjko]

@kushal-neupane well, you are still young. You can't still imagine it.. Have fun and don't over do it.. It's not good to break someone's heart and trust.

[Casualboy]

@wildwallflower lol. Are you following me?

[Lurker]

@casualboy

No, she isn't, what a shame

[wildwallflower]

@casualboy what do u mean?