Which one do you prefer dating for marriage or for fun ?



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  • The BatSheep

    @cjko I think you have to have an end goal. If you only date for fun... one day it would be to late to date for marriage. That said, it can be fun just to date and see what happens. So long as you both are aware of the time you are having (just for fun or not) then what harm is there?
    I asked someone out for a date (take them for a meal) just recently... When I was asked where? and I replied ,"Nandos" the person was lost .... 😊 tehehe 😮

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    @cjko

    Can I pick both?
    Dating for fun is so much more chilled to get to know the person, plus how can you know you wanna marry someone when you just started to date them? Isn't it like a process? Date, have fun, get to know each other and eventually marry?



  • Personally I don't think it's ok to date for fun, that the end goal should always be marriage, but I'm open to hearing what others have to say about it.



  • @cjko I know what u mean, i'm sayin this bcz ive done this, it hasnt helped me really. There was one guy about whom ppl used to say good things but he was a pure evil! and then this one person about whom his closed ones said he's not good at relationships but turned out to be the best one so far.
    You gotta find out urself, experience that person thru your own perspective.


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    @cjko

    I see your point and in that sense I prefer dating for marriage, but I still keep my answer.
    When I start dating someone I always go in with the intention to get to know the person, have fun with her and have a good time. Marriage desire shows up eventually if she feels like the one! It's not something that you jump in and have that kind of feeling. At least that's what it is for me.



  • @cjko Its not always about that...People change, and parting ways is the best thing to do bcz holding on would do more damage, on both sides.
    And even if u do ask other ppl and do a background check it doesnt help bcz ppl are different with their friends, something else with their family and something else entirely with their partners, I've seen that.


  • The BatSheep

    @wildwallflower said in Which one do you prefer dating for marriage or for fun ?:

    @cjko Its not always about that...People change, and parting ways is the best thing to do bcz holding on would do more damage, on both sides.
    And even if u do ask other ppl and do a background check it doesnt help bcz ppl are different with their friends, something else with their family and something else entirely with their partners, I've seen that.

    Those ms, are very true sentiments that’s for sure. It makes you wander why people have to ‘keep up apperances’ with different parts of their lives. I mean I get the family thing, but others .. hmmmmm


  • Soul Searchers

    @cjko
    I don’t mean to sound rude, arrogant, uptight or any other synonyms for a jerk but i will be as bluntly honest and straightforward as I am.

    Being born in an gud family environment i would prefer dating a girl for marriage obviously because she will have the same type of upbringing as me which will be easy to cope with. .

    I don’t mean to offend anyone this is just a trait of my straightforward personalit


  • Soul Searchers

    @cjko I mean a girl who can plan her career and have an identity of her own and not have the 'housewife' mentality but still know the value of having atleast one meal together with family!



  • @cjko At present I prefer dating for fun...in future I would obviously look for a promised relationship however if I think about it just for the present time Dating for marriage is absolutely NOT on my list. So yeah 'for fun' seems like a more chilled out option for me. No promises and no strings attached for now.



  • @Anastasia-Smith well, it really depends on your preferences. When you get old or when you aged ,and sooo done with people's mind games, you will look for someone who is good for your soul and spirit. Spending time and investing anything fun on someone you didn't see any glimpse of future with , is a waste of time. (Imo)

    Engaging in an open relationship or in a no strings attached rs oftentimes hurt the other person involved.. you don't want to end in that same cycle for too long, right? I didn't see any "fun" when there is "hurting".



  • @cjko I totally understand you...that is why I mentioned that in the near future I'll surely look for a promised relationship and not just for fun's sake however thats situational. As for now I guess I'm not into the concept of dating for marriage. As for people who choose the no strings attached relationship for their future there's nothing too wrong with it...I totally support you in the fact that when one grows old they surely require a partner to spend their time with however not everyone looks for a promised relationship some people prefer to remain single throughout their lives cuz they find it more satisfactory. But yes when I age I wouldn't look for the no promises relationship.



  • @cjko thanks for the advice. I'll keep that in mind🙂



  • You know, I think you got to date for fun. If you cannot enjoy the moment, if you cannot really let yourself fall into it, then you have already lost, is what I think.

    So dating for fun, and then, proposal for marriage 😂



  • @mr_peanut hahaahah really ?
    hmm, well yeah.. you got a point there.. dating for fun is for me a waste of time, feeling, effort, everything.


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    @cjko coz it should be that answer. Nothing exist than that 😏 forever is a long time, for us.



  • @justchatamy I think every girl's perspective is this..



  • @cjko I wouldnt date for fun, never have. But marriage is a big deal, you dont feel like marrying every other person u date, ive told at home about only one ex of mine and yet we ended up breakin off.



  • I would rather for marriage at this point






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