Does it consider as cheating if u have a partner and u love him so much but u sext with strangers online


  • @bushmurry that's good, I'd love to have a relationship as open...I do share my secrets but he doesn't respond... I mean he doesn't mind (this is what he tells me), but he doesn't have the same desires, so that makes it difficult for me to "explore options"...He would feel awkward if he had to share me with someone else, even if it's just virtually. I guess with time we'll maybe find a way, I just have to be strong and patient.
    @Lucifer_ When I said "innocently" I meant I've never actually got "physical" with anyone, but I did get close...

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    @a-le

    @a-le said in Does it consider as cheating if u have a partner and u love him so much but u sext with strangers online:

    @bushmurry that's good, I'd love to have a relationship as open...I do share my secrets but he doesn't respond... I mean he doesn't mind (this is what he tells me), but he doesn't have the same desires, so that makes it difficult for me to "explore options"...He would feel awkward if he had to share me with someone else, even if it's just virtually. I guess with time we'll maybe find a way, I just have to be strong and patient.
    @Lucifer_ When I said "innocently" I meant I've never actually got "physical" with anyone, but I did get close...

    I wonder if something is bothering him or changing in his life? I can tell you both love each other... you will make the right choices I'm sure. I just finished reading a book I think has a lot of good insights into this... "Mating in Captivity"... it helped me understand some of my own motivations and my partners motivations that I could not see by myself.


  • @dee16 just curious. Better to have one sexter whose amazing than a whole normal bunch. saves on time and costs and even make it easier by finding easier ways to sext. You know like skype or snapchat. Just a suggestion. I dont know you, you dont know me just being a nice guy....


  • @a-le the way i see it you have 2 options
    A) Break it up, if he finds out later he is going to be more hurt.
    😎 Talk to him(its the recommended option) : You can try things, spice it up.

    he finds out you are sexting random idiots breakup is going to be horrible.


  • @lucifer_ we do use toys and did try role play... sex in different places (like parks or other public places, I actually love that), would like to try clubs but I guess I'm scared it might make things worse...oh and when I mentioned threesome I said we could try ffm first to see how we both feel about that...Shit, I feel like there's something wrong with me!


  • @lucifer_ thanks for your words ☺ I'm scared of fucking up our relationship, but I need more sexually and can't feel like a nympho for the rest of my life... I'm gonna end up cheating on him for sure if I don't find a way to make this work.

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    I don't think there is a simple answer to this, everyone is different. I guess the real question is, is it something you want to stop? And if not, do you explain it to him or keep it secret? Your partner does not need to know everything about you... you will be able to judge better than anyone here if it will affect your relationship. Good luck!

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    @lucifer_
    Hey dude, love your contributions and thank you for weighing in. She has no problem with me flirting... pretending there is no-one else attractive in the world is an exercise in futility that is bound to fail and end up with you beating yourself up and feeling guilty. Flirting does not harm our relationship, and she of course flirts too. It's fine, I love the way she glows when she catches someone checking her out!
    Talking to cam girls I keep to myself. There are many reasons I do it, and not all of them I am proud of. It actually can be very intimidating to tell the one you love your most taboo thoughts, for fear of judgement by someone you hold dear.

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    @a-le It was hard to tell her. But honestly, I love her and feel proud when people make her feel sexy. After all, I benefit from this when we get home ;). She does not know everything I flirt about, and I don't know everything she flirts about. I don't need to know, I just want her feeling good about herself, and I want to feel good about myself.

    Has your parents ever told you you're beautiful? It's like that... you believe them... but it's not a surprising thing to hear from them. Sometimes it is nicer to hear from a stranger.

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    @ragnar-lothbrok I feel you could be right here. She obviously loves her partner, but he is finding it hard to be sexually open with her. Perhaps asking him if there is something he has been too shy to ask for would be a good first step?


  • @ragnar-lothbrok oh I do open up and try to make him feel relaxed...believe me I'm pro communication and honesty but I just got to the conclusion that maybe he's just not as 'explorer' as I am when it comes to sex...which is a shame coz he's really good and I enjoy making love and everything we do, I just wish for that extra sparkle


  • @a-le Not physical I think that would be a good enough definition of Innocent.


  • the thing is ,i cant do it because of religion boundaries


  • @dee16 you have a partner and still looking for such things, bizarre


  • @sybariumy i cant do sext with my partner bcause of religion boundaries which i dont hope that u would understand


  • @dee16 you're muslim, hindu, christian ?


  • As a nice guy i have to it kinda is, but if you find an amazing sexter hold them close they are rare.... 😉


  • @nice-guy wow what a nice & great advice mr nice guy 😛


  • @dee16 i know i give good advice cos im a nice guy. 😛 so do you sext with a lot of strangers orr just one ? just curious 🙂


  • @nice-guy why do u wanna know 😛






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