Does it consider as cheating if u have a partner and u love him so much but u sext with strangers online

[dee16]

And also your partner didn't know that you're sexting with strangers

[one]

According to me it's not cheating do whatever you want to do man/women..!😜😂

[one]

@lucifer_ no she don't caz I make her fully satisfy she's satisfied by me..😜😂 it's going private bro wat r u doing 😂😂😂

[one]

@lucifer_ damn I'm just kidding bro not a serious statement of mine that was..!😂

[Lucifer]

@a-le Nothing's wrong with you, you are an explorer he is ok with what he has.
Keep pushing a little bit or try a professional consultant, you love him, he loves you,
both want it to last you need to find something that satisfies both.

[Lucifer]

@a-le its not just your onus, he has to step up too.
if he doesn't want to try anything get him to go to a professional at least.
You cant spend your life unsatisfied or relationship might will get bitter.

[one]

@dee16 ther is nothing exists like boundaries woundries do whatever you want to do..!😂

[one]

@lucifer_ why bro 😂😂😎😎🙏🏻

[LittleGirly003]

I would definetly call it cheating. Give your partner that attention :P

[A Former User]

@a-le you need to break it off with him..
or talk to him about this and ask him to up his game..there is no shame in you telling him what you want from him
.see all you got is few years on this planet..and i wouldn't advise you to settle down with something that you are not completely satisfied with...it will only drive you mad as the time passes.

[Lucifer]

@a-le
Well if he is a shy guy,
Start small use toys, try role playing, then move to the biggies like the club and unless you are going to bring a girl over never ask a guy about threesome.

[Lucifer]

@one Bro how would you feel if your gf sexted with another random idiot ?

[Lucifer]

@one you are one hard person to figure out man!

[Lucifer]

@one Nothing bro!
You are a very unique species!
Just keep it up!
.

[A.le]

@bushmurry well it's actually something I haven't even started, I've been thinking about this idea for a while and thought it could be a good compromise, as it wouldn't be physical or emotional (well just superficially) and that wouldn't mean I'll keep it secret forever....or maybe it might help me in becoming more "understanding" of my partner's feelings ...who knows? I just know that I love him but I know I have some needs to satisfy if I don't want to go crazy...

[Bushmurry]

@a-le I am getting help on my relationship as well. Sometimes we can be scared to show all of ourselves to our partner for various reasons. Sometimes our partners can surprise us when we challenge their capacity to understand our feelings. We always assume the worst...
I feel the need to flirt too, but there are no women in the town I live in I want to flirt with. So I go online. I understand wanting to feel desired by other people, I have no want to leave my partner either. My partner does not mind me flirting or chatting on cam sites, maybe there is a way to keep this secret or maybe there is a way to get what you're needing with permission? Wish I could help more

[A.le]

@bushmurry I do flirt innocently when I'm out (not with him of course), and I did get close to regrettable actions... But I do feel wrong, even if I've never done anything disrespectful to him I think... How did you break it up to yr partner? And how did she react to you flirting online? Does she know everything you do when flirting?

[Lucifer]

Yes @Bushmurry how did she react?
P.S: You cannot hide anything for a lifetime, sooner or later the truth finds its way out.
P.P.S: Secrets destroy relationships.

[ODIN]

Well, i think it is better to stick on your relationship, flirting keeps relation at worst, and asking a man 3some is a bad idea. Just tell him the truth he will figure it out what to do.

[ODIN]

@bushmurry said in Does it consider as cheating if u have a partner and u love him so much but u sext with strangers online:

@ragnar-lothbrok I feel you could be right here. She obviously loves her partner, but he is finding it hard to be sexually open with her. Perhaps asking him if there is something he has been too shy to ask for would be a good first step?

Yeap, honest helps to create bond to each other and make relationship strong, she have to ask him and make him confortable for anything, i mean ANYTHING. i always make my gf as my best friend of all time that she feels most confortable around me.