share your problems with Layla!

[Quatre]

@sup 😂

[Quatre]

@michaelele Mich you okay?

[layla]

@lucifer_ Shall I make another post "share your problems with Mustafa!" just for you?

[layla]

@michaelele Remember, everything gets better eventually. If you want to talk about it, I'm here <3

[ryan78]

hey so i’m a bisexual but i’m not out yet. and i’ve been talking with this guys from september to january. we stopped talking in january because we confessed to each other that we wann be together but because i wasn’t out it couldn’t happen. so after consideration i was going to come out to my family (who is 100% against homosexuality) so when o told this guy that i was gonna come out so we could be together he said “i hope your not doing it for me” but when i told him i was doing it so we could be together he said “i’m not attracted to you like that” but he explained to me a few days prior that he didn’t wanna be with anyone becaise he liked me. so he told me he didn’t wanna hurt me so we cut out talking down to the minimal and we barely said a word to each other for 2 months. then i realized i can no longer live without him and that i’m in love with him. now i’m drooling over him and he doesn’t know i still love him. we started talking again and i’m trying to avoid growing apart anymore than we already have. i don’t wanna tell him i love him becaose i wanna have him in my life. he doesn’t have to love me. i just wanna stick around and be a friend. and i eventually wanna see the guy who makes him happy. i’m happy if he’s happy but i still wanna confess my love to him but how do i do that without freaking him out?

[TheStrangest]

@ryan78 said in share your problems with Layla!:

hey so i’m a bisexual but i’m not out yet. and i’ve been talking with this guys from september to january. we stopped talking in january because we confessed to each other that we wann be together but because i wasn’t out it couldn’t happen. so after consideration i was going to come out to my family (who is 100% against homosexuality) so when I told this guy that i was gonna come out so we could be together he said “i hope you're not doing it for me” but when i told him i was doing it so we could be together he said “i’m not attracted to you like that” but he explained to me a few days prior that he didn’t wanna be with anyone because he liked me. so he told me he didn’t wanna hurt me so we cut out talking down to the minimal and we barely said a word to each other for 2 months. then i realized i can no longer live without him and that i’m in love with him. now i’m drooling over him and he doesn’t know i still love him. we started talking again and i’m trying to avoid growing apart anymore than we already have. i don’t wanna tell him i love him because i wanna have him in my life. he doesn’t have to love me. i just wanna stick around and be a friend. and i eventually wanna see the guy who makes him happy. i’m happy if he’s happy but i still wanna confess my love to him but how do i do that without freaking him out?

OH MY GOD FLYING SPAGHETTI MONSTER. There are sooooo many different problems here. This is so complex

1st identified problem, coming out.

I think this video is enough:

2nd identified problem, your boyfriend friend.

Case 1, he isn't gay/bi

Just skip to the answer of the 3rd identified problem then

Case 2, he is gay/bi but he doesn't like you

I think this video is enough

If you understand that you need to earn love and try/have tried your hardest but it doesn't/didn't work skip to step the 3rd problem

3rd identified problem

You need to be straight with him (pun intended) and tell him that you'll always have feelings for him, that you won't make any moves (BECAUSE YOU WON'T AND SHOULDN'T) and that he hope he doesn't mind that whilst keeping you as a friend amd then hope that will time you'll find someone else. Maybe listening to sad love songs might help you move on... find a way but point is that after you tell him

[ryan78]

@layla Hey so i’m a guy and i’m identifying as a bisexual and i’m not out yet. Recently one of my fiends and i have gotten really close and i started to have a crush on him but it’s not escalated into an obsession. what do i do?

[TheStrangest]

@ryan78 Did you read my reply?

[arley]

@layla
“You got me on my knees”

[bye69]

@layla Layla where r u now?