Friends are something that an average person needs. Humans are just made that way. But I think it's not correct to think that friends can fix everything, as well as that friends will stay in your life forever. Throughout life you will meet dozens of people and make many friends. But only one or two out of hundreds will be something you may call a "real friend". That's if you are lucky enough to meed someone with similar mindset and values that you have. People you call 'friends' will walk out of your life for different reasons (they may be insignificant or important) and will stay with you for different amounts of time. That's why I think that it's better if you put yourself/your life/feelings first most of the times when it comes to your friends. You can stay in a really good relationship with them even if you don't always put them first or give all of yourself into these relationships. Because each one of us have their own lifes to take care of. Those people who will want to stay with you and will understand you/love you - will stay. And those who don't - won't. Whatever you do for them. It depends on the mindset of the other party. Loving, helping, caring for your friends is great, but if you put them above other important things like yourself, then they will get used to it. And most people won't do the same for you or will try to use your love for their own emotional self-satisfaction. That's just how it is. So I think you just need to do everything in moderation and state values right in life.
how many friends do you have
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hey guyss im just curios on how many friends do you have is your friend cirlce small average or big . mine is small tbh cuz im trying to have friends the only ones who do really care for me and they love me as i do cuz im very emotional but im pickyy too cuz i dont want to waste time with people that dont mean shit to me
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@decent-chat Too many to count
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@decent-chat my friend circle is small due to the fact that I cant trust people anymore. There was a point in time where I could trust my friends to be true about their but when someone refuses to grow up and be an adult, and just keeping drama going you realize who you can and cannot trust. I currently have 3 people that I really tell everything to and can trust them not to run and tell my business to the world, and then there is the outer circle of friends who ive known since i was a kid but dont really talk to alot to tell them everything which is only 2 people.
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@decent-chat None. I'm affraid they have all moved on.
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@dymondj yeah same i had 3 friends that i could talk to about every single thing that i wanted and still trust em but i fucked up with 2 and 1 cut me off the other isnt like how it was before andd the im all good with the 3d one but i cant talk to him cuz my phone is broken and he only has whats app and like i cant talk to him
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@hephaestus wym by moving on
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@cheesecake-lesb are you happy with ur friends?
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@decent-chat Yes I am
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@decent-chat yeah i know how that can feel to be abandoned by the people you care about but you just have to find some that wont leave you no matter how hard things get. and if you ever need more than just your friends to talk to, i talk to alot of strangers about how i feel because i know they cant go and tell anyone i know what i said because they dont even know me, so that could be a big help when you just want to let some feelings out into the world.