I donโt know, I mean thereโs no special reason
self-worth and self-love
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I was terrible for myself back then, begging for someone's love and attention, and then my soul was so broken like glass, my tears were flowing like there was no tomorrow and then I realized that through my ups and downs, I have nothing but myself so why would I live like hell? this realization hits me like a high voltage of electricity flowing through my body.
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@Rachel-Ombajin THIS. I am going thru the same thing. except I am doing a reverse. Once, I loved myself. I was confident. I loved being by myself. I enjoyed my company. but now, I constantly compare myself to my twin. I get jealous of her and act irrationally. like I need this constant validation, and if she gets even a slither of attention I go wild. I wasn't this way before.
I miss my old self. I need her back.
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@Rachel-Ombajin which incident made you realize that?
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@vanteindo and you need to get her back. You might think that you are not good enough compared to your twin, but you are good enough. Jealousy will destroy your self-worth.
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@Ash33 For instance, if you are trying to fit in with anyone who makes you feel less
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@Rachel-Ombajin Yes and I am trying. I am trying to not care, to not mind anything, and just to remain calm and not be a hypocrite. Or immature.
I just need to try harder cause it's affecting me and others.
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There was once a dude always begging for someone's love but then realized 2 things. He has nothing but himself and he was barking at the wrong tree. The realization made everything about him seem so pathetic and everyone he told about it imagined he's the kind that never keeps anything to himself but tries to solicit sympathy from unbothered lot. That didn't hit him like a high voltage of electricity but the only thing that did was when he decided to take matters in his own hands๐ญ๐ญ
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that's sad and we cannot blame him.
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@Rachel-Ombajin you're not alone
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I know, thanks