• Well.... A confession I have is that.... I think im lesbian now


  • What? Your best friend is too nice now you like her?


  • @Alvsecret No not my best friend just girls in general are hot


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  • This is bullshit your not a lesbian by nature then haha you said it " I think Im lesbian NOW" as if we were not which proves that your parents are not doing a good role raising you as a girl plus ur too much effected by the social bullshit in ur environment and maybe exposed early to lesbian porn .. I blame ur family tbh and completly discourage you to think this of yourself again .


  • @TM I wouldnt blame it all on the parents tho. Sure, they should monitor her internet activity, but in the end of the day, they cant guard her 24/7. Its just something her environment is fomenting, It will pass away, unless shes reckless enough to have lesbian intimacy and end up liking it.


  • @Kochio 🤔 my confession will be i am less bean now and i love @WtfJudith thats all.


  • @TM said in Confession I need to let go:

    This is bullshit your not a lesbian by nature then haha you said it " I think Im lesbian NOW" as if we were not which proves that your parents are not doing a good role raising you as a girl plus ur too much effected by the social bullshit in ur environment and maybe exposed early to lesbian porn .. I blame ur family tbh and completly discourage you to think this of yourself again .

    Or maybe she is, why the hell should you care? 🤨

    I didn’t even know gay porn or even gay sex were a thing when I realized I also liked girls. I was less than 11 yo at the time and hadn’t yet been exposed to any social media, movies, another gay person or anything like that that could have "influenced" me to be gay.
    My parents raised me in a loving environment, my mom is pretty open minded, my dad is fairly conservative and not that keen on gay relationships, but nothing extreme.

    So explain to me how the hell my environment could have led me to being gay today? 🤔

    For me it was quite the opposite, my lack of early exposure to gay relationships made me believe for a long time that I was 100% straight and that my feelings for certain girls were just because I saw them as really really good friends 🤷‍♀️ I thought everyone felt that way

    Your environment doesn’t turn you gay. It’ll only influence how you perceive your own feelings and cause you to hide them (like in my case), or hopefully do the opposite and help you figure them out earlier (:


  • @Kochio said in Confession I need to let go:

    Well.... A confession I have is that.... I think im lesbian now

    I wish you to best and congrats for coming out here! (:


  • @WtfJudith Judy, sorry i shall not take a part of this post but allow me to enlighten you. TM will not accept such answers even if you explain the truth. The fact is he comes from the close minded culture with strict religion (Islam).

    However thank you for your explanation 🤗
    I really appreciate that and i love you for whatever happen in your past, it is a part of me too.

    @TM please stop put someone's in corner if he/she/it becomes a part of LGBT. If you dislike it, no need to cuss.
    Your understanding, i will really appreciate that.
    Thank you.



  • @G-A Thank you for being polite in this post lol but you kinda linked between narrow mindness and my religion which is completly false . Not accepting LGBTQ ( gay people in general ) Is not because I'm a muslim who follows the orders of Allah in general but only confirms my own self rejection to this phenomenon as I call it " disgusting and not natural" . If you have one sense of logic you would see what your body parts ( organs) do to serve you as a rational-Spiritual being .. your penis abilities are limited to what it CAN do and SHOULD do not what you CHOOSE to do with it .. we use it to pee because the urine path ends up there we can do nothing about it !🤷‍♂️ we use it to satisfy our other half and ourselves and release those sperms that also serves one purpose and is to make the woman pregnant and we didn't choose that too 🤷‍♂️ . The same thing goes with the woman's vagina not gonna repeat the idea ( period , ovules ) but can you please tell me any NATURAL purpose for the Anus ? Other than it being a hole where the shit goes out ?? Is it a place that ur penis should end up in ? Surely not ! Not only with men ( being a male bi ) but also ur own wife ( anal ) .. it is disgusting and not close from being normal . So please stop putting me in the corner of your "deformed view of Islam and muslims " and respect my argument mentally because my source is not only the book of god but also the brain that god gave to me . Thank you :)


  • @TM said in Confession I need to let go:

    your penis abilities are limited to what it CAN do and SHOULD do not what you CHOOSE to do with it .. we use it to pee because the urine path ends up there we can do nothing about it !🤷‍♂️

    True, thats how we throw up something we consume after drink something. Your genital organ as well can identify your gender for statistic purpose.

    we use it to satisfy our other half and ourselves and release those sperms that also serves one purpose and is to make the woman pregnant and we didn't choose that too 🤷‍♂️ .

    Dont forget you can do vasectomy or stop to produce sperm with your own willingness. Not all men can be dad! If you can take those responsibility then please proceed and take action as a dad.

    The same thing goes with the woman's vagina not gonna repeat the idea ( period , ovules ) but can you please tell me any NATURAL purpose for the Anus ? Other than it being a hole where the shit goes out ??

    Woman vagina can do vasectomy too. The natural of anus? Yes to make shit goes out / feces we can say. The other way? It is for medical purpose. If you had no anus, would you imagine how come you put some med for some health problems like kidney, urethra, colon (that mostly people deal with this problem)? Oh i forget some institution like Army / Police in SEA (idk about your country) , there are requirements to test the anus health that it can detect the health problems for the candidate they have tested. For me, anus is not for sexual object to fuck but still it has functions.

    Is it a place that ur penis should end up in ? Surely not ! Not only with men ( being a male bi ) but also ur own wife ( anal ) .. it is disgusting and not close from being normal .

    For me? No. I am into girls/ladies/women/female. I am not into man if you define it by gender. So as long as it is she, has vagina, does her period (it will be considered) as well as has boobies, i accept her. I am not bi anyway 😂 so i will not complain about anal coz i will do another humiliation. However, anal sex is the choice, you may not do that coz it is disgusting but some people enjoy that. We cant change people there 💁‍♂️

    So please stop putting me in the corner of your "deformed view of Islam and muslims " and respect my argument mentally because my source is not only the book of god but also the brain that god gave to me . Thank you :)

    You seem defend it by Holy Koran 😂 previously we have those debate, i am not gonna be criticized about people that choose their way to be LGBTQ+ 😂 also, since you give Judy a link that she shall read, now i attach the link you shall understand https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/sexual-orientation/sexual-orientation/what-causes-sexual-orientation


  • @G-A So basically your reply was just adding up to the main Idea not denying or criticising it .. sure I will read the link .


  • @G-A I read that before .. my link is more interesting if you checked it out because recent results show that biological factors play a very small role in sexual orientation ..


  • @TM said in Confession I need to let go:

    So basically your reply was just adding up to the main Idea not denying or criticising it .. sure I will read the link

    I think there is nothing that shall be debated there. If your problem is all about genital organ, like i said vasectomy can work.

    I read that before .. my link is more interesting if you checked it out because recent results show that biological factors play a very small role in sexual orientation ..

    Nah i want to show you that if you think that there is no biological factors involved there, it is almost impossible. I quote it from parenting website as it is more educated without being damnly judgemental so you can also be calm a little bit. If it is not that interesting for you, well for me it is more informative 💁‍♂️

    Also TM, i remember you ever called my aunt is sick coz she is kinda asexual then she shall go to the doctor. If your statement previously talked about there was no genetically things involved there, why my aunt shall visit doctor? Asexual is actually part of LGBTQ too. If you said so doctor can give her prescription to gain her hormone so she will have desire to do sexual activity, so you indirectly addressed that there are genetically things involved there.

    I heard from my extreme friends experience that he is a gay, his parents sent him to such medication, Thailand. He is really girlish, he acted like girls, he loved dolls and all girl's attribute. He is a soft-heart and our lovely good friend who never said harsh words or cuss. There are hormones pills (from Japan) and i forget the name in Chinese but it is chinese pills that makes him has sexual desire through the hole, not the man genital 🤔
    It helps for a while, but after medication, he decided to be bi 😂 he married a girl but he ended up to divorce that girl then he became gay again.

    Based on this story, you can have a little insight that genetics play roles for yourself and children.


  • @G-A My article confirmed that actually but it didn't say that the main reason is completely biological ... but only plays a role from 20 to 25% at maximum . Answering the Asexual aunt of yours " point " I never considered asexuality as part of lgbt tbh and told you she should be treated and visit a doctor cause it's a much easier case that includes psycological factors too from what I know and can be treated .


  • @TM well then it takes part, TM. If there is no biological things that carried on first, people will not fall in love by attraction only. Some people fall in love because of sex, comfort zone, the safe guarantee, money or even obsession of his crush's /partner's body, face and good looking feature.

    The attraction perhaps take a part but the desire to do sex is actually natural things. How about the people who does not have that tendency? Do you think it is based on attraction only?

    There is DNA that has been included in our blood, there are chromosomes X and Y that can play a part. So, in my conclusion, even if it is only 10-25% at max, the LGBTQ+ was not created by attraction only. Your statement to Judy is directly pointed to claim that they are doing the attraction meanwhile there are lots of complex combination.

    For asexual, it is included in part of queer. You can do googling but this news is actually my reference https://news.temple.edu/news/2021-07-06/why-aromantic-and-asexual-people-belong-lgbtqia-community