I'm an under-cooked main dish.


  • The image of my body has been weighing me down for the better part of my teenage years.
    I've always wanted to be like every other girl - to have my curves and sides symmetrical. To have boys fall for me or at least just look at me.
    And I try my best to portray myself in a cute, pretty manner on my instagram. But it can't change the way people see me and see my body in person.
    If not to have a 'basic pretty' body, at least to have someone to talk to about these feelings - but its just that not one understands. No one can relate. Amongst all few trusted people I've shared this with, everyone simply cringed and turned the other way. And I felt alone in the world, as the only girl who looked like me - constantly longing to be understood and accepted.
    I've been trying not to focus on it as much anymore, but the I'm not sure if the pain of knowing I'm built completely that everyone else is hard to shake off - and I'm not sure it ever will.


  • @05baby You must accept and embrace your appearance and body. Don't get to obsessed about how other people sees you.
    You can try working out and keep a diet but that you do for youself. The body is constantly changing so don't try to overthink it.
    I don't look more than 10 seconds in the mirror, I accepted the way I look and how the world sees me. What matters is what is inside, not what is outside.

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